"If a man wants to divorce you, he will use various cues in daily life, but no matter what kind of cues, his ultimate goal is to divorce you. Therefore, compare your performance to see if your partner has these tendencies.".
Saying to relatives and friends that there is no emotion
When most men have an affair after marriage or when their wives do not give their husbands tenderness in marriage, they will "promptly" send out harsh words in front of their relatives and friends, saying, "He is not good to my parents, we quarrel every day, we cannot communicate with him, we have been in a cold war for a long time," and so on, implying that you may have a "divorce" situation, and on the day of the real divorce, Everyone will say that it's because you haven't been a good wife. You never imagined that it was your once beloved husband who stabbed you in the back.
To ignore you without tenderness
For women, a husband should be someone who cares about us meticulously and can complain and share with us about the chores in life. However, when you see him anxious or indifferent to us, unless he is very intelligent, he must have done something wrong or be disappointed with you. Perhaps he's just in a mood for a moment, so before it's time to give up, you can say to him, "Should we talk? Although you said it's okay, I believe there must be something wrong with us, otherwise you wouldn't do this to me."
Very good at pretending to be poor and finding fault in life
"A man after cheating is quite selfish, especially when he wants to build a love nest with another man, he will pretend to be poor in his family. If he is a businessman, he will say that the business this year is not easy to do, and if he works as a part-time worker, he will say that the company's benefits are not good, there is no bonus this year, and so on. Anyway, it is just how poor he comes from, so that you can identify with him as a poor boy in your heart. In this way, even if it is a divorce,", He won't have much to lose. If the husband and wife are providing the building, they will let you provide the building yourself. Whether it's raw rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, or children going to school, or the elderly getting sick, they will use a series of abnormalities to maximize their iron rooster appearance. Anyway, they just don't want to squeeze a drop of oil and water from him. Another thing is that he will start to dislike the saltiness of your cooking, fade your hair and fly all over the house, and even get angry with you. This will achieve his goal, as he will smoothly withdraw from your relationship along this step.
Often cited overtime as a reason for staying out at night
Most men will "study" marriage laws after cheating, and they use what they have learned to skillfully divorce. The most typical thing is that they will seize the "legal divorce for those who have been separated for two years due to emotional incompatibility" clause in the marriage law, or they will either move elsewhere or even leave the city to work outside for a long time. As long as they have made up their minds, they will.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)