Husband and wife's life is a field that needs more care and attention. Fertilization, irrigation, weeding and pest control are indispensable. And the most important thing is "nourishment". This nourishment is not material. It comes from spirit and emotion, but also sexual life.
Nutrient 1: create unexpected surprises
Surprise the other party unexpectedly and often act as an emotional "stimulant". Therefore, creating a little surprise is very good for improving the relationship between husband and wife. For example, hiding from the other party, bringing his or her relatives in the distance to meet, buying something for the other party that he or she really wants to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other party has not prepared but likes very much, and so on, can make unexpected surprises arise spontaneously, thus bursting out a strong emotional flower in the surprise and setting off a jubilant heat of love.
Nutrient 2: keep sexual life fresh
Sex is an important way to connect couples' feelings, and a good sex life is a necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop their feelings. Many married couples have the same sex life, lack of innovation, and lead to emotional passivity. Therefore, it is necessary to create a new sexual life style. By changing the time, place and position of sexual life, both husband and wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sexual life, and keep the emotional flower of husband and wife fresh forever.
Nutrient 3: leave some personal privacy
No matter how big a person is, he will also be jealous of his lover's gossip, and it is more difficult to tolerate the fact that the other party's "red apricot" scandal, which leads to the family crisis is not uncommon. Therefore, it is not a good idea to "confess" the privacy in the past personal marriage and love history to the present lover. That will not only help improve the relationship, but will bring about avoidable emotional crisis. Therefore, leaving some personal privacy is a wise choice to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife.
Nutrient 4: Be careful to make friends with the opposite sex
It is normal for couples to have their own social activities after marriage. However, we should be careful to make friends with the opposite sex, and keep a proper balance in our contacts, so that our relationship can only be controlled within the gay relationship. Friends of the opposite sex who obviously have a good feeling for themselves or even have no good intentions for themselves should take the initiative to alienate and deal with emotional disputes with reason. The best way is to participate in some social activities that are attended by yourself as little as possible. Even if you can't refuse, you should also ask to attend with your lover. This should be done especially when there is a danger of "third party" getting involved, so as to put an end to their non-share.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)