Post Date April, 15 2023
Men are visual aggressive animals. Their views on money, power and sex are based on instinct. The only difference is only a matter of opportunity and courage. Ten men and nine flowers, no mistake.
However, it doesn't necessarily mean taking action. After all, there are only a few people who take romance as a meal. But in this era, in the depth of men's consciousness, love is not all, but sexual fantasy is inevitable. In general, a mature man will not take risks easily, but when both external and internal conditions permit, he will naturally be in danger.
Marital burnout
Characteristics of the danger period: From the perspective of system, marriage is a bit of an "iron rice bowl", but where is there an iron rice bowl now? Especially after the initial stage from love to marriage, the other party's feelings will inevitably enter a relatively flat period after reaching a certain level. Without too many ups and downs, the man's instinct of liking the new and hating the old will be ready to move, although the other party may not have the intention of separation or divorce.
Guide the way: In fact, more extramarital love happens to two new acquaintances. The old ashes of early lovers are revived. It is more likely to happen only when at least one party's marriage is on the red light.
In fact, marriage is to live. The greatest strength to maintain marriage is responsibility and mutual respect and need in life. Marriage really needs feelings, but there are two states when it comes to love, just like the difference between being a music fan and being a DJ.
Male depression
Characteristics of danger period: When a man is frustrated, what he needs most is to get affirmation from a woman, relax himself by relying on the warmth of a woman, and rebuild self-confidence.
If this man lacks a partner who can be intimate with him, then at this time he is very eager to have other women "take advantage of the opportunity", and even casually find a woman he usually disdains to be close to. If a woman who has always been in love with him takes the initiative to comfort him, it is easy to happen.
Guide: Men who seem to be strong are sometimes more vulnerable than children, while women are born to be good mothers. The sublimation of a man's feelings is sometimes accomplished when he is most vulnerable.
Poverty relief and prosperity period
Characteristics of danger period: This kind of person is often not a playboy or a naturally lecherous person, but at least it is the money that makes his male instinct suddenly inflated. Their early life is likely to be darker than that of ordinary people, and their frustration in love is also very hard for them.
They use their money to make sexual encounters constantly, just out of a kind of compensation psychology, and the number of sexual encounters is often used as the standard of their "sense of achievement". At least for them, love is probably just a joke.
It seems that it is time to mobilize the whole people to discuss the social responsibility of the rich.
Beyond the ambiguous period
Characteristics of the danger period: one party or even both parties have a good feeling for each other, but only maintain the relationship of ordinary colleagues or friends. An accidental opportunity creates conditions for both parties: accidentally, they suddenly enter a state, and in a daze, they break through the boundary
Guide the maze: When the opportunity comes, women always seem hesitant, but men often seize the opportunity to take the initiative. Opportunistic men sometimes do give women an unexpected surprise, but more often they don't want to take any responsibility for their impulse.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
