Post Date December, 03 2023
If she doesn't feel anything you do for him and takes it for granted, then leave him for the time being. Let him feel what life is like without you. I believe it won't take long for him to understand how meticulous you have taken care of him before. He can't leave you, and then he will invite you back to his side.
So, how can you become a necessity of his life? Let's take a look!
First, become the air he breathes
Men are like young children. They are often hesitant emotionally and have no courage to bear your love. If you want him to cherish you, you should let him know that you are indispensable. For example, he is like a fish swimming in the water, singing the song "I want to be free" all the time. So you have to slowly penetrate into his life, make him comfortable and unconscious, neither repressed nor bound, just like the air in the water. Sooner or later, he will find that he can't live without you, just like the air is pulled away.
Second, decorate your bedroom
Although there may be children and old people between you, the existence of these people has a certain impact on your enjoyment of the two-person world. It doesn't matter. You can build your bedroom into your two-person world. It's very simple to forbid others to enter, and then melt your trace into his space little by little. His bookshelf has a lot of your books unconsciously. Sarah Brightman's CD is the favorite of both people, and now he only buys one. But when he wakes up one morning, he will find that his toothbrush cup has become one of a pair of lovely Winnie Bear cups... How can he distinguish between the two worlds with such close overlap?
Third, prepare dinner for him
Nowadays, women are also very busy. Only in the evening can they have a long time. At this time, you can prepare a dinner for them carefully. It doesn't need to be luxurious. It's just plain and light. The key is to pay attention. Because the most touching thing for men and women is to eat together every day. If one day he said such words: "No matter how late I go home, I can drink the soup cooked by my wife." Then his life is basically not without you. Turn the sweet talk romance into the essential three meals. "Grasp the heart first, grasp the stomach". Although the way is old, it is irrefutable.
Fourth, make his healing place
When we were young, what we suffered, what we most wanted to find was our own mother, which will not change when we grow up. Although you men seem to be very powerful, there is a weak and soft place in your heart. No matter how strong a man is, he is just like a 6-year-old child. When he is most tired, he just wants to lie in your gentle embrace. When he is most confused, he also regards you as the only object he can talk to. You are his spiritual dependence. He may have brothers or beauties. They only share his happiness, His real inner pain is only left to you, so for him, life without you would be unimaginable.
Fifth, use gentle offensive
No man doesn't like a gentle woman. A gentle woman gives them a sense of protection and satisfaction, and feels like a real man. Therefore, it is the highest principle to win the hearts of men. A wise woman will understand the heart of men. "I believe that such a woman will never be found again in this life." Listen to his conclusion, no matter how many eager and covetous girlfriends he has around him, he will leave the stage. This bowl of soup called "gentleness" is the only way to corrode men's thinking ability.
In short, if you want a man to love you more, you need to do the above points to make him feel inseparable from you.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
