Post Date April, 15 2023
It is well known that men have a good face. Although men usually feel open-minded, men's self-esteem and the importance of the opposite always make them hurt. So, what things in life can make men feel faceless?
Men are always regarded as open-minded. Therefore, whether they are wives, colleagues or friends, when they are dissatisfied with the men around them, they will point out without hesitation. Xiao Zhenyu, director of the Evaluation Department of the Mental Health Promotion Center of the Institute of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, pointed out that men are actually "face animals", and the biggest damage to their self-esteem is often not from difficulties and poverty, but some casual words in life.
Evaluate him as small-minded or timid
Everyone is afraid of being said about their weaknesses, for example, the poor are afraid of being said to be poor, and the upstart is afraid of being said to be uneducated. For men, it is the most shameless to be considered as having no broad mind or timidity. Whether colleagues, classmates or brothers, whether intentional or unintentional, such evaluation will greatly hurt men's self-esteem. Especially when he hears these words from his wife, he will feel that even the closest people do not respect him, which is more devastating.
Mention his embarrassment in public
No matter men or women, there are always people who like to expose their shortcomings in public places. For example, "I went to the same room with Xiao Wang on business and was stun by his feet" and "Xiao Li likes to pick his nose when he has nothing to do". Although it does not involve principles, it will make men's self-conscious image greatly reduced. Some people like to make fun of the position and income of male colleagues and boyfriends, which will make the parties feel that their abilities are denied, thus hurting their self-esteem. In addition, it is embarrassing to often ask single men about their feelings, whether it is out of kindness or malice.
Praise another man in his face
If his wife appreciates Beckham, Tom Cruise and other stars, I believe that most men will not be unhappy because it is far from their life. But if a wife or well-connected female colleague often praises his male colleague or his brothers and brothers in front of a man, it will hurt his self-esteem. It's just like being compared with children in the neighborhood when parents were young. The closer you are, the more embarrassing you are.
Be indifferent when he boasts
Men have some heroic dreams. They occasionally show off their past glory to colleagues, friends or partners. If the other party doesn't respond at this time, or say something like "this is nothing" or "uninteresting", the man's psychology will inevitably produce a sense of loss.
Public life privacy
When women get together, they like to talk about their husband's shortcomings, even share their private life with their girlfriends, and tell others about the unhappiness of their husband and wife's life. This will make men feel that their secret is no longer a secret, but also used as a conversation after lunch, which is easy to affect the relationship between husband and wife.
From the above, it is not difficult to see that denying men's ability in public places has the greatest impact on their self-esteem. Over time, it will affect their mood and work status. Self-esteem can promote a person to be self-motivated in learning, responsible for family, and enterprising in work. Therefore, we should see more of men's strengths and avoid mentioning their shortcomings.
In fact, everyone has their own face problems. In life, it seems that men care more about this. So if you care about the man's feelings, the above things must be avoided.
