It takes skill to master every relationship in your own hands. So how to take the initiative in love? Initiative is often closely related to personal quality and behavior. Only by correcting attitudes, paying attention to details, and mastering communication skills can one truly grasp the initiative in love. Let's talk about how to grasp the initiative in love based on my own experience, hoping to be helpful to friends in need.
First of all, have a normal mindset. To have a correct attitude towards each other's likes, and to achieve neither excessive infatuation nor indifference, that is, the state of being just right. That is, speak boldly when you want to speak, and take it seriously when working and studying. This is the first step in mastering the initiative in love.
Pay attention to the charm of your eyes. Eyes are the window of the soul, and using them to convey love to each other is the most effective method. If you like each other, while maintaining a good and normal communication attitude, using your eyes to communicate can often achieve unexpected results.
Be confident. The manifestation of self-confidence is not only reflected in behavior and actions, but also in the ability to think, especially in the need for self-motivated, conscientious and responsible attitude towards things, and good manners towards others.
Give in to the good of others. Create a brand new image and temperament based on each other's personality characteristics and preferences. At the same time, it is also necessary to actively improve various aspects of their own qualities, such as cultivating their own personality charm and creating a sense of security for the other party.
The most important thing is to make the other person feel that you like (love) the other person, so that the other person can have a favorable impression on you. Once the favorable impression is generated, you can be in an active position in love.