Sign 1: He suddenly turned into a powder bucket
Zhushan thought that the war between the two people would only happen once. Unexpectedly, the Second World War between her and her cohabiting boyfriend was less than three years away, and this time, he was completely groundless and deliberately found fault without reason.
One day after dinner, when Zhushan was in high spirits, she put one foot on the chair and talked about trifles while eating. After a while, she found that she was wrong. Her boyfriend didn't say a word, frowned into a well, glanced at her knee that almost touched her chin from time to time, and her eyes showed her rare impatience and disgust. She later thought about the word for a long time, and also understood why she said: "What's wrong with you? You're sick!"
Similar words are children to them. In the past, such seemingly derogatory words contained unspeakable intimacy. But this time, my boyfriend's response was: "I am sick? Look at your virtue! Let no one eat!"... The war was so urgent, and the result was that all the dishes on the table moved a lot, and all went to kiss the marble floor.
This is just the beginning. Zhushan said, "I think he is deliberately finding fault. I am still the same as I was before. But how can he be dissatisfied with me? He is picky about everything and always gets angry." Until one day, the woman called home, Zhushan suddenly realized.
■ Expert analysis:
1. When a man suddenly turns into a powder keg, nine times out of ten, the track of his feelings has gone wrong;
2. If you are sure that he has left you far away from his soul and body, then your wisest way is to let go and let him go.
3. There are different types of men's betrayal in terms of degree and level. Some people think of love and are not willing to go too far; Some people don't think about the old relationship at all, just want to finish everything quickly and clear the obstacles for the new relationship. At this time, his words and behaviors will be unusually manic, and even lack of rational hurt to the other party's body and mind. The intentional fault finding and fighting are such categories. Therefore, when a man has such words and deeds, he mostly chooses to leave your prelude.
4. Think about yourself. Do you still love him? Love is irrational, but your action to save love should be rational. The more furious the other party is, the more calm you will have to be. Bring his unspeakable truth to the table for communication. In Laozi's words, the world is the weakest against the world, and maybe you can win;