Post Date April, 15 2023
Although the marriage principle is not completely decided by women, women should know that these five secrets can protect their position in marriage. There is an inevitable connection between women achieving themselves in marriage and developing themselves to achieve a better marriage. A woman is the best she can be and treats marriage in the most intelligent way. A junior or something will die far away, because you are a book her husband will never finish reading.
More and more female compatriots often complain in front of me that they cannot find any sense of security in their marriage, have no slightest trust in men, and even in their dreams, they are afraid that their husbands will be unfaithful to their marriage, and they are looking for women outside on their own. Almost every day I spend in fear and trembling.
However, the best treatment is not worth prevention. If all wives can do some necessary preventive work before marriage problems occur, and as I mentioned in this article, become a "five haves" wife, then many mistresses will not have a chance. Even if they are a bit ambiguous with your man, it is difficult to threaten your position in the palace in the final analysis. Here, let's popularly refer to the "Five Wives" as the Five Principles for Preventing Third Mates in the Imperial Palace.
Principle 1: In marriage, there is a killer mace for managing husbands;
Marriage is like driving a car. As a driver of a car, you must always be confident that the car can be braked within your expectations and vision. I think it's the same with women in marriage. You need to master a trick or have a killer that can stop your man within your control when the situation is critical or critical.
"It's not that I exaggerate, it's very important, even if it's equivalent to the lifeline of marriage to some extent.".
The assassin's mace is never the same, and different men have different weaknesses. Regardless of whether it's a yin move or a hard move, you must ensure that when you use a move, he will have no moves. In fact, there are many women in real life who use sprinkling to subdue men. Although I don't much agree with this approach, it may save your marriage at a critical time.
Principle 2: Have an independent economic point in your career;
In too many words, I have always emphasized the importance of women's independence and self-reliance. This importance is not only reflected in a certain period, but should permeate the entire process of marriage and even life. Because in this world, everyone is snobbish, picking the softest persimmons to pinch and picking up the best things to eat is human instinct.
Therefore, having an independent economic point in your career becomes a necessary condition. Only when women have their own independent career and economic conditions can they truly be respected and cared for by men. Even if you are a full-time home wife, you need to achieve your core personal values by doing a good job of housework, cultivating your children, and managing relationships with relatives and neighbors.
Although this point is not very direct, it still has a more positive and orthodox influence compared to the first point. It is like spring rain moistening things silently, constantly standing guard for your personal interests and marriage. No matter how much men spend their time, they will still respect you three points.
Principle 3: Have an independent economic point in your career;
In too many words, I have always emphasized the importance of women's independence and self-reliance. This importance is not only reflected in a certain period, but should permeate the entire process of marriage and even life. Because in this world, everyone is snobbish, picking the softest persimmons to pinch and picking up the best things to eat is human instinct.
The truth in marriage is exactly the same. The weak side is always oppressed by the strong side, and this repression mostly begins with their inner disapproval and disdain for their value. Therefore, it is very necessary for women to establish their position and value in marriage.
Therefore, having an independent economic point in your career becomes a necessary condition. Only when women have their own independent career and economic conditions can they truly be respected and cared for by men. Even if you are a full-time home wife, you need to achieve your core personal values by doing a good job of housework, cultivating your children, and managing relationships with relatives and neighbors.
Although this point is not very direct, it still has a more positive and orthodox influence compared to the first point. It is like spring rain moistening things silently, constantly standing guard for your personal interests and marriage. No matter how much men spend their time, they will still respect you three points.
Principle 4: Have a trusted person around your husband;
As military strategists often say, knowing oneself and the enemy is invincible in all battles. In the war of marriage, especially as a woman, if we cannot grasp and understand some of the men's situations in a timely manner, it is a very disturbing thing.
Therefore, I believe that as a man's wife, you must have someone around you who is worthy of your trust and willing to "tip the breeze" for you. Only in this way, can you timely grasp his movements and thoughts, and thus have more opportunities to prevent and save marriage than other women. This method not only can wait for work with ease, but also is much smarter than the "tracking" and "catching adultery" commonly used by stupid women.
Principle 5: There is a person in the family who speaks for you.
As the saying goes, no one in the court should be an official. What I want to say here is that no one in the family is difficult to be a wife. In real life, many women are quite sad. On the one hand, she can't get along well with all the family members of men, making herself surrounded and even becoming a street mouse. On the other hand, she can't control her husband. At this time, as long as the junior plays with Dim sum eyes or tricks, he is likely to quickly take his place.
Therefore, a smart and powerful wife can always have a good relationship with her husband's family. Although it is not possible to have a good relationship with everyone, she may be able to "woo" one or two people who have weight in her husband's eyes.
On the one hand, doing so can show your respect and love for your husband, and on the other hand, it is also seeking a foothold in the family for yourself.
