Post Date December, 03 2023
With the increasing openness between the sexes, it is understandable that most people require premarital sex, but the specific situation still needs to be analyzed. In general, there are only five reasons for requiring premarital sex.
Five reasons for men's premarital sex
First, identify the other party
In modern society, although it is not a commendatory word, almost everyone wants to marry himself, and there are still many people with complex. Based on this complex, to ensure that you can find one to go home, some people will try their best to "try it out" despite the repeated opposition and rejection of the woman.
If you try to win the other party's victory, you will be happy and dispel your previous worries; If you don't try, you can plan again, or even avoid breaking up. In short, they are not allowed to take any risk to marry a non-home. The more open and less the society is, the more they want to take this "reassuring pill".
In this regard, our view is that perhaps the complex is understandable, even worthy of pity. However, it is extremely sad and shameless to act at the expense of others, even contemptible conspiracy activities, regardless of the feelings of the woman.
Second, it is driven by interest and can't wait
I have always believed that most people who have not experienced sexual behavior are not mature. Because they can't feel how to be caressed from some details of feelings and exchanges. This kind of caressing is either doing something or not, it is dissolute and patient, it is gentle and brutal.
For a person who has not been with you and has not thought well or is unwilling to give your body to you, it may only be caressing, understanding and patience.
In our view, if we do this, it will be more of a kind of love. It is this kind of love that makes them become rational, become able to suppress Fang Gang's interest, become forced but able to wait, and become able to weigh between desire and responsibility, and the later maturity is far more reliable, long-term and powerful than the maturity obtained only by sexual behavior.
Third, I think that only when I give it to him can I really love him
Can it be that a person who falls in love with a person must give his body to him, and this must be before marriage, before he can give her any guarantee? There is no love without reason in the world, let alone giving without reason.
The payment of anything is reliable only when it is willing, and true only when it comes naturally. Otherwise, it is immoral and ridiculous to impose anything, or to force it with selfish intent.
Here, I want to say to all those who have this idea: if you really love her and want to get her, then treat her well, treat her sincerely, solve all her worries, dispel any worries in her heart, let her be willing, and give it to you without hesitation.
Fourth, test the degree of sexual harmony after marriage
In real life, although there appear to be many reasons for a period of failure, more than half of them are related to the lack of harmony. So, from this point of view, I'm not very opposed to asking for premarital sex. Unfortunately, there are not many people who can have this idea completely and simply in real life. They may value the pleasure of their own sexual behavior more. As for whether they can get happiness, they often don't consider it. Their so-called test of sexual harmony after marriage mostly comes from personal feelings.
Of course, it must be pointed out that the harmony between men and women can not be simply verified in the short term before marriage, because everyone has different physiological cycles, and the living environment and work pressure are constantly changing. At the same time, the most important thing is that the disharmony can be mostly remedied through sex. So, although this reason is not unreasonable, it is mostly just an excuse.
Fifth, only for desire, not love at all
As for the last reason, I don't want to talk about it more, because it doesn't even have the least technical content. To put it bluntly, it is to play with it as a bait to deceive you and him. As for the love that pops out of these mouths, it can make people laugh off their teeth, which not only pollutes the environment, but also pollutes the Holy Spirit. If you want to believe these lies, you can only blame yourself.
