Post Date December, 03 2023
Girls in love are often not sure about their boyfriends' love. I'm afraid that "one slip will become eternal hatred". Here psychologists will teach you some ways to determine the psychological hidden trouble of your boyfriend. If your boyfriend has any of the following courtship psychology, there is a hidden danger in his love.
1、 Absolute self psychology
This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition. He asked his girlfriend to show his "advantages" from time to time and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or are not likely to be met, he will be angry and even feel that you have failed him.
2、 Logical error association
This kind of man is usually associated and suspicious. Generally speaking, he attaches great importance to love, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of lovers. Once his girlfriend does something he can't understand or is unhappy with, he will "think about it" and find out the evidence that you don't agree with him mechanically.
3、 Non-emotional transfer into psychology
This kind of man has no sympathy when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, and does not put himself in the evaluation and understanding. Especially when the girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be treated emotionally, she flinches or ignores. He can only share happiness with you, but not with you.
Five psychological hidden troubles of men in love
4、 Wrong contrast psychology
This kind of man often compares his strengths with those of his girlfriend, or with those of others. This kind of man can quickly find your advantages and appreciate them when he starts to associate with you, and your feelings will also rise in a straight line. But if he finds that your advantages are so inconspicuous, he will be indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you unpredictable and even becomes a temptation, making you feel more mysterious.
5、 Adapt to excitement
This kind of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense, but lacks autonomy and self-confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he especially likes trendy women. Pay attention to the appearance and image of your girlfriend, such as her dress, hairstyle and clothing, and are very willing to invest in this area for her. However, once you can't adapt to his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain.
When you find that your boyfriend has any of the above psychology, don't take it lightly. Of course, strictly speaking, any man will have one or more of the above worries more or less. There is no need to panic, and there is no need to "break up" as soon as you find it, so you will never find the right partner. The standard of how to master this "degree" is: if you really love him, you may as well talk openly about your worries with him and let him realize the danger of this hidden danger. If you are new friends and your relationship is not deep enough, you can also talk with him to see what happens later. If you don't think it is necessary, break up the relationship. However, take either approach. One thing to be grasped is whether your judgment on him is correct and comprehensive. Otherwise, taking for granted and self-righteous will bring you lifelong pain.
