"Keeping mistresses, finding young ladies, and keeping mistresses" are the most popular words in today's society. Although they are contrary to the Chinese tradition at first, men are still enthusiastic about it and enjoy it. It is the dream of many men to have a spare wife at home and a mistress outside. Which man is not lecherous? This is the simple reason.
So when a man has a mistress, it is more to pursue a process of enjoyment and spiritual stimulation, but things always have to have an explanation and an end. The above are the final five possible outcomes of raising a mistress I summarized:
The first outcome:
When a man raises a lover, many people will end up with things revealed, and finally let his wife know, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and the wife, and finally lead to divorce.
If the lover is single, the man will choose to marry the lover and continue to lead a married life. The wife may find her partner and live a new life.
However, children have lost the happiness of their family, and the greatest harm is to them. However, the outcome is relatively satisfactory.
The second outcome:
If both parties have families, and one party divorces after the incident, while the other party chooses to continue their marriage, the divorce will only result in the loss of both people and money.
However, the couple who choose to continue their marriage will surely leave a shadow in their hearts that is hard to heal, leaving a hidden danger for their normal life. But this outcome is not the worst.
The third outcome:
The reason why many mistresses are together with men is the word "money". Often when the wealth reaches a certain amount, they will choose to leave.
During their life with men, they are also too lazy to influence each other's family, as long as they have money to spend, it is enough, while men pursue physiological needs, and each gets his own way.
Until one day when women had enough money, they also wanted to understand that natural breakup was the final outcome. However, this kind of man will continue to pursue women as mistresses, and it is also a matter of time before he reveals his true feelings.
The fourth outcome:
After the man found his mistress and let his wife find it, his wife, out of revenge, unexpectedly went to find his lover, and the result was a lot of domestic violence.
At this time, a man's mentality is that he can find a mistress, and women should follow three rules and four rules of virtue. But he forgets that it is an era of equality between men and women, and asks the other party to be honest first. It is obviously unfair to blindly say that women.
Under this influence, the relationship with the lover will often change and eventually become a lonely family. I think this is also a tragic ending. It hurts people and hurts them. If they are not married, they will become enemies. Lovers will also be ashamed of it. Why?
The fifth outcome:
A man falls in love with his mistress, and a mistress falls in love with a man, and a man cannot choose to leave his wife for a sense of responsibility.
Finally, after the announcement, the wife chose silent acquiescence for the sake of the family, and the lover chose to continue to love each other in order to get the love of the man, so a funny scene appeared. One, three, five, five, two, four, six, six, two, four, six, two, four, six, two, four, six, two, four, six, two, four, four, six, four, four, four, six, four, four, six, and four, four, six, four, four, four, four, six.
However, at this time, I'm afraid the most tired person has become a man, and the pressure can be imagined. So what should we do? I can only send you one sentence: suffer from it.
Of course, the final outcome of each person's adoption of a mistress is not entirely the same. For example, it is said that 90% of corrupt officials keep mistresses, and less than half of the reasons for their fall are related to this; There are also scholars and celebrities who have their mistresses ruined; Some people can't bear the pressure and commit suicide. To sum up, raising a mistress has no good ending. It's better not to raise it.