Among the divorced couples, Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman may be an excellent model. Even after the divorce, Tom still praised Nicole's beauty and excellence. He would also visit the children they adopted together during the holiday and spend a few days together. Although Nicole may be a little narrow with her ex-husband, she can still face everything elegantly and peacefully.
If you don't want to see it, you can't see it. If you see it carelessly, you can be an ordinary friend. With this attitude, sunshine and happiness can easily enter your heart.
Five possibilities of relationship between men and women after divorce
Five possible divorce relationships between men and women
1. Hate one's bosom
Perhaps breaking up was not her original intention, so after having to accept this reality, she was full of hatred for this man and this marriage, and accused all her friends of his unfaithfulness and irregularity, and spread the smell of hatred in all possible spaces... No one can mention him in front of her. This topic is definitely a time bomb, and if she is not careful, she may be blackened.
● Narration
There is no need to bring personal privacy to the surrounding environment, and no one has the obligation to share it for you. The hatred caused by divorce is normal in the short term, but if it goes on in the long run, it will not be good for your future health and life. Especially if you have children, you should also consider the bearing capacity of children who are still unreasonable. Hatred will only make children grow up in a lack of trust and security.
Five possibilities of relationship between men and women after divorce
2. Ordinary friends
In fact, all the past can't be easily erased. You can't be a husband and wife. You don't have to be an enemy. If you don't want to fight hard, you can be an ordinary friend. To be an ordinary friend and to be aloof and aloof should be the best state of EX. His life is no longer related to you, and yours is also, but it does not rule out occasional care and greetings. Of course, there is no need to prepare gifts for him on his birthday and Valentine's Day. However, when you need help, you and he are not allowed to appear in front of each other.
● Narration
To be friends again requires a little mind and tolerance. In fact, there are still good examples. Xie Xian and Deborah have been divorced for decades. After seeing each other at the party, they will still smile and take a group photo in front of the media. They will also make a unanimous statement on the growth of their children. Why can't I come back to you after divorce? Better than this, you can't be a husband and wife, but you can be a confidant, or no one knows you better than him. When you are in trouble, maybe he will provide you with the most practical advice.