When you understand the desire for free space in men's hearts, you will feel that home is sometimes a cage in the zoo for men - in the cage, what you really want is the unrestrained forest and grassland.
It is said that men have strong aggression because their freedom, freedom, activity, and interaction are affected. So, for men, they should adopt a "free range" approach. 5 favorite states for men:
Many newlywed men will complain to their buddies: there are no longer the days before! The 'past days' mean being free to spend time and do whatever you want. But as soon as he gets married, the man feels like he has become a "yo-yo ball" in his wife's hand - he runs a little farther and is pulled back by the thread in her hand!
Apart from sleeping and necessary work, men seem to always like to move - they are passionate about outdoor activities such as playing ball games and mountain climbing, and of course there is no doubt that even at home, they still need music to accompany them. If a man wants to stay quietly, he will feel extremely bored.
Be free from minor matters
Take off your shoes and toss them with your feet when you go home instead of putting them in the shoe cabinet; Sleeping late in the morning without making the bed; Brush the dishes after using them up; There are many such things. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women's strict rules only make men nervous.
Speak up directly if you have something to say
What can't be said directly? "Many men have complained like this. Women love to express their thoughts in a roundabout way, and even a smart man cannot keep up with a woman's brain. Especially after conflicts arise, women adopt a "ignoring" attitude - not speaking, not having access to the phone, not eating, not staying in the same room, and other "cold violence". Actually, men hope to use simple methods to handle problems between two people.
Unwilling to manage finances
If men spend as much as they earn when they are single, don't expect them to change after marriage. They think that personal finance is a very troublesome thing. They might as well put their experience on hobbies. So men hand over the financial power of their homes to women because they are too lazy to bother.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)