Post Date December, 03 2023
As the saying goes, no spoon can live without touching the edge of the pot. In a marriage, there will always be problems of one kind or another, and any couple can't avoid it. When two people stay together for a long time, their instinct of liking the new and hating the old will produce dissatisfaction with each other. Therefore, in order to stabilize the relationship between husband and wife, we need to know what is destroying the relationship.
After investigation and research, it is found that the causes of marital emotional crisis are generally as follows:
Mutual hatred
The husband and wife should love each other, but if they can't stand each other, either you don't look at me or I don't look at you. Both sides do their own things and don't interfere with each other, or they look at each other with disgust. If we have to cooperate with others, we often take a stand-by, indifferent and hateful attitude.
Disloyalty between the two sides
Loyalty between husband and wife is the foundation of a stable relationship. However, if one party betrays the other first, it will easily induce the other party's betrayal and resentment, and even retaliate with the same unfaithful actions, and finally fall into the mire of mutual suspicion and cannot extricate itself. At this time, it is too late to regret.
No unique personality
Only those with personality will have charm, which also applies to couples. Even if they live together, they should retain their unique personality, so that they will not have a sense of boredom. A husband who lacks personality will not win the favor of his wife. Similarly, a wife who lacks personality will make him feel tasteless.
Disharmonious life of both sexes
A perfect and harmonious sex life is an enhancer to stabilize the relationship between husband and wife, but there are many couples who do not attach importance to the quality of sex life. Many couples' emotional discord is actually caused by this, but "emotional discord" is more gentle and acceptable than "sexual discord".
Money issues are tangled
In real life, there are many couples who are in conflict because of money. The problem of money is often the fuse of conflict between couples. The family's economic situation should be within its means and used reasonably. In fact, this is not a question of more money and less money. It is mainly about the attitude towards money and how to arrange it.
These are the factors that affect the relationship between husband and wife. I hope you can pay attention to them. Don't let these problems destroy our feelings.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
