Post Date December, 03 2023
There are many adults in life, even middle-aged and elderly people, who, although seemingly mature in appearance, are actually very young in heart, and their behavior, behavior, and thinking are not divorced from their childish state.
Inherently immature people can make the lives of those around them very tiring, even painful, and such people themselves are also very uncomfortable and unaware, they do not know why they live like this.
The following are five characteristics of a person's immaturity. If you have them, start now and slowly quit.
1. Immediate return
The first important characteristic of inner immaturity is the immediate reward for your efforts.
Such a person is like a child of four or five years old, whose eyes can only see the shortest interests.
He didn't understand that only when sown in spring can autumn be harvested. Many people, when doing anything, have just given a little and are about to receive a reward.
Learning the piano, learning English, and so on, feels difficult at the beginning, and if it doesn't work, immediately give up. Many people start working without much success and think of giving up. Some people give up within a month, some give up within three months, some give up half a year, and some give up within a year.
Over time, giving up has become a habit, a typical loser's habit.
What you want in life, you have to give first. "If you want to obtain time, you must first pay for it. If you want to obtain money, you must first pay for it.". If you want to be happy, you need to make others happy first.
2. Self-discipline
What are the main manifestations of self-discipline?
(1) Not willing to change themselves
Many people have many bad habits, such as playing mahjong, drinking heavily, gambling, and so on. They also know that such habits are not good, but why are they not willing to change them? Because people are inherently inert, many people would rather endure the familiar pain than face unknown changes.
(2) Talking about others behind their backs
If you like to talk about others in life, one day it will definitely be passed back. There is an old saying in China: Whoever talks about human rights and wrongs must be right and wrong. A person who likes to talk about the bad things of others will also fall into a negative vortex.
(3) Negative, complaining
Who do you like in life? Are those people who frown and complain all day, or do they like those who are happy all day? If you are a complaining, negative person in your life, you must change this mindset.
3. Often driven by emotions
The success of a person depends on five factors:
(1) Learn to control emotions
(2) Healthy body
(3) Good interpersonal relationships
(4) Time management
(5) Financial management
If you want to succeed, you must manage these five factors well. Why put emotions first and health second? Because even if you have a strong body, if you are in a bad mood, it will affect your body. Nowadays, 20% of a person's success depends on their IQ and 80% on their EQ.
We should control our emotions, not be controlled by them.
4. Not willing to learn, self-righteous
Some people often feel good about themselves as they are now, or are unwilling to face their true selves. When you encounter someone better than yourself, you slander and deny them, and when you encounter something new, you reject them.
And then stay in the cage of self righteous for a lifetime, pathetic and lamentable.
In this era of knowledge economy, learning is your only passport to the future, and only continuous learning will not be abandoned by this era.
We must have a mindset of learning and returning to zero. To learn the advantages of each person, "In a company of three, there must be my teacher"!
5. Do things not rely on faith, rely on people's words
We say that belief is the starting point and persistence is the end point. Many people do things without faith and like to listen to what others say. "I don't have 100% confidence in what I do. Belief and belief are two different concepts. Belief is visible, while belief is invisible.".
Belief is an attitude of human beings, but many people do things not rely on faith, but rather listen to what others say. If you want to climb a mountain, ask those who have climbed it, and never ask those who have not climbed it.
This is not to say that don't listen to others' suggestions. You can refer to them, but remember that you are doing this business to realize your dreams and realize your own value. Other people won't care about your dreams, only you care about your own dreams, only you care about whether you can truly succeed. This is the most important!
Only by overcoming your immaturity can you gradually grow and mature, and you will achieve the kind of life you want. So as to realize your life dream of free time, financial freedom, and spiritual freedom.
