Post Date December, 02 2023
With the rise of the divorce demography of modern people, we adults should review. Why break the sacred marriage when the object of marriage is the one you love the most? Perhaps you have very good reasons, but you cannot persist until your head is white, everything is an excuse! There are indeed many loopholes in marriage, and filling these loopholes is the only way to live together in this life.
The first loophole: Lack of loving listening
Listening is a way of maintaining emotional communication in marriage. The wife is often the confidant, while the husband is the listener. Exactly, some men do not want to listen to women's confidences and view them as their nagging. So, whenever a woman wants to open her mouth and talk, a man quietly hides to do his own thing, which makes the woman feel very uncomfortable. The person you love the most is unwilling to listen to your own feelings, what's the use of asking them? So, men please be a listener quietly, and women will repay you with full love.
The second loophole: White lies can also hurt emotions
Although white lies are a tactful means, emotional women would rather listen to cruel truth than any form of deception. Any lie can lead to the breeding of problems. When a partner discovers that they have been deceived, they have to face all the problems again, which deepens the misunderstanding and affects the relationship between the couple. So, for couples, when facing differences, try to gently tell the truth of the problem to the other party, gain their understanding and understanding, and be honest with each other, which will make the relationship deeper.
The third loophole: Ignoring the other party's feelings
After all, marriage is composed of two people, and personal behavior and methods cannot be the same, and the feelings of both parties are also different. Perhaps in your unintentional behavior, you have already hurt the other party. He/she may tolerate it because he/she loves you, but tolerance is limited. As the saying goes, a single spark can start a prairie fire, small problems gradually expand, and mutual feelings will inevitably be impacted. So, both spouses must take care of the feelings of their loved ones when dealing with people and things.
The fourth loophole: a decrease in sexual intimacy
The importance of sex has risen to a high level, as it directly affects the sexual well-being and happiness of marriage. It cannot be denied that sexual activity is the most intimate and expressive behavior of a couple, and for any reason, a lack of sexual activity is like sending the other person into a "cold palace". No one can bear this pain. Therefore, love your partner not only with your heart, but also with your body.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
