Main Room Battle Junior: From "Lady Class" to "Madam College"
In November, the "Madame College", the first in China to teach courses on women's management of marriage and emotions, officially opened. This "college", which costs 100000 yuan, prioritized "preventing mistresses" and immediately attracted widespread attention from society due to its rich topics.
In fact, Madame College is not uncommon, as there are already teachers of cooking and flower arrangement. The reason why this newly opened women's college in Beijing is famous around the world is because its curriculum includes the concept of "preventing mistresses". Whether this course is mandatory or elective, it is still quite tempting for some female comrades. Should Xiao San be on guard? Of course, be careful! Although love is free, it is not very moral for a mistress to disrupt marriage and break up a family. As a family member, it is understandable to strengthen their awareness and skills in preventing mistresses.
But can listening to a few classes solve the quite "universal" problem of "preventing mistresses"? More netizens question, 'Managing marital emotions' is a matter for both spouses, why do we only find' wives' to attend classes? Some people believe that this still reflects the concept of "male superiority and female inferiority".
However, some people also believe that whether it is from the initial "ladies' class" or the current "ladies' college", it is not wrong for women to participate in training in order to improve themselves. Everyone can also enjoy learning, not necessarily to please men. Everyone will have an estimate of the practicality of the third year prevention course. Going to the "Madam College" can be seen as a competition between women and a manifestation of women's pursuit of self-improvement.
Mother-in-law Not Having a House: New Interpretation of Marriage Law Shocks Chinese People's View on Marriage and Love
In August 2011, the new interpretation of the Marriage Law triggered a social shock and had a significant impact on the concept of marriage and love among Chinese people. For a while, the topics triggered by the new interpretation of the Marriage Law were overwhelming, repeatedly stimulating the emotional and ethical nerves of urban people.
Among them, the topic of "ownership of premarital property" is the most concerning and controversial. According to the new interpretation of the Marriage Law, if one parent invests in the purchase of premarital property, it belongs to personal property and cannot be divided after divorce. This has sparked various interpretations, some people are concerned that this move favors the strong and encourages infidelity, or leads to a situation where "the husband's infidelity may result in the wife being cleared out of the house", which is detrimental to marital stability.
At the same time, some people believe that the new interpretation of the Marriage Law reflects the principle of fairness. "If some women are penniless when they get married, it is reasonable that there will be no guarantee in the future, and the man has already provided you with a free room." The words of the netizen "gossip show" represent the idea of some people: "The judicial interpretation III has hit women who are unwilling to pay for a house when they get married and mothers in law who are not married without a house." With the new interpretation of the marriage law, more mothers in law have said harshly that they should buy a house for their daughters even if they don't accompany them with anything.
Is the "New Interpretation of Marriage Law" biased towards the strong or protecting the weak? Legal professionals and emotional experts have different opinions. The new judicial interpretation highlighting property rights makes young people who have not yet married feel the reality and complexity of marriage. The entanglement between emotions and money has been unfolded, and the direct and naked property relationship has brought huge impact, breaking the original romantic expectations. When women understand that marriage cannot be seen as their second reincarnation in life, and finding a husband instead of a landlord may lead to greater independence for women, ultimately leading to earth shattering changes in sexual relationships.