Having done bad things psychologically requires a lot of pressure and responsibility, and extramarital lovers also suffer from inner pain and torment. However, this kind of pain is not always present from the beginning, and usually only slowly emerges after going deep into an extramarital relationship. In short, extramarital lovers will definitely suffer from three intangible pressures.
Extramarital love makes feelings confused
In this extramarital affair, many women were genuinely in love, but the extramarital couple did not take it seriously and felt that maintaining their current extramarital state was good. The woman is puzzled by this and sometimes even suspects that the other person is playing tricks on her. This leads to confusion among women about their emotions, making it difficult to understand whether the person they love loves them or not, and whether the person who loves them is sincere. As a result, I became suspicious of love until I didn't believe it and stopped touching it.
The psychological anxiety and fear easily caused by extramarital love
Extramarital love is basically negative, or rather intolerant, so she has to painstakingly fabricate various lies all day long, both at home and abroad, to cover up extramarital love. Opportunities for exposure such as economic expenses, time arrangements, restless faces, subconscious reactions, and nighttime dream words cannot be prevented, and one has to use lies to prevaricate, often worrying about their lies being exposed. Long term lying left her exhausted and overwhelmed.
Extramarital love goes against morality and responsibility
Extramarital love is an act of disloyalty towards a spouse and affects their children. For married women who have a strong traditional concept of marriage and family, have certain feelings between husband and wife, and have never had unfaithful behavior towards themselves in their extramarital affairs, the moral self-discipline of "do not do to others what you do not want" is still deeply rooted, making it difficult to treat their husbands and children with peace of mind, and often falling into a state of conscientious self blame.