Post Date December, 03 2023
What is the biggest crisis of marriage? Not all men and women can ensure that their marriage can be happy forever, because there are too many temptations in today's society. If these temptations are not controlled, especially in the event of sexual infidelity, it will also bring great crisis to their marriage.
In 2008, the proportion of marriage crisis caused by "extramarital affairs" was about 50%, and then this proportion has increased continuously. Now, it has exceeded 60%. "People with money and status cheat and take a lover as a symbol of status." Experts analyze that many people's values and outlook on life have changed due to the adverse impact of the social environment.
At the same time, the conflict in the run-in period of marriage has become increasingly obvious. In fact, the run-in problem of marriage has always existed. However, as the only children of the post-80s and even the post-90s enter the marriage palace, the contradiction in the run-in period of marriage has become more prominent, and has repeatedly triggered marriage crisis.
Some people are confident that they can balance "in marriage and out of marriage", but it is far from the simple case as imagined: a couple who have been married for 18 years, and their daughter has already graduated from high school. In March of this year, the woman's worries for several years finally got the exact evidence - her husband, who has an annual income of millions, has given birth to a pair of twin sons with her lover, who is six years old.
But his husband didn't think so. At first, he thought he could "settle".
However, the wife obviously could not accept it, and she was noisy and wanted to commit suicide. It turned out that her father died when her wife was 10 years old, and she lacked father's love since childhood. She had high expectations for her husband in her marriage and longed for more love from him. Excessive adhesion and emotional demands on weekdays lead to the man's cheating by seeking relaxation outside.
Now, the man who was overconfident can't end up either: his 17-year-old daughter doesn't want to recognize this father, and his wife is in agony, which also makes him extremely ashamed; Twin sons can't cut off their feelings; The lover had to take care of him because he had a baby and had his uterus cut off. The incompatibility of his personality made him unwilling to marry his lover. Now, he has no intention of doing business and suffers from severe depression.
Extramarital affairs have become the biggest killer of sexual marriage, so if you want to better maintain and manage your marriage, you must pay attention not to touch extramarital affairs easily, or it will not only hurt yourself, but also become a tragedy for several families.
