Post Date December, 03 2023
Extramarital affair: Is your husband still deeply in love with you?
I really want to ask a question, does your husband really love you deeply? Is it true that he said he loves you all his life and never dies? Asking such a question first depends on the time, location, and people. If it's in front of the leader in a man's office during the day, I believe the answer I get is 100%: "I don't know how many men still love their wives, anyway." This kind of thing is mostly not taken seriously, just like TV dramas where third parties are eventually kicked out, in order to meet ethical standards and comfort the audience. Even if the plot is really arranged with a third party, the once angry and yellow faced woman will surely be charged with countless crimes by the director, and extramarital affairs will become arrogant and rightful.
TV dramas are for women who stay at home with nothing to do. If a man stays in front of the TV every day, he will be laughed at. And how can a woman surrounded by love, career, and children have time to watch TV? The TV drama made an unforgivable mistake, deceiving those idle women into thinking that their husbands would eventually return to their side no matter what roses, lilies, or jasmines they encountered outside.
TV dramas sell women the most impossible hope, helping men who return late to accompany them. I believe that more than 90% of men who have been married for five years (there is no need to endure the "seven-year itch") still stay with their wives today not because of love, but because of morality, responsibility, career, future, public opinion, property, time, or no new goals, etc. Their "reasons" have achieved "love". A man who meets the above criteria should plead calmly and confidently, stating how loyal he is to his wife. If you show sincerity and sincerity, I will feel that you are lucky enough to belong to that 10%; You make me feel uncomfortable, I just take it as if your wife is by your side, and you are a deceitful person who has a heart of thieves but no heart of thieves. Besides, why do you have to argue with me? If you care about such statements, you can only say that you have a guilty conscience.
As is well known, love has a deadline, not as short as a second, nor as long as ten thousand years. Building a real marriage on abstract love is already foolish. Do you still want to add preservatives to it? In the air, love is destined to gradually lose its attractive appearance and even become detestable with the passage of time. Your 'love' cannot be proven by going home to eat every night or sleeping in the same bed every day. In the dead of night, have you ever asked yourself, what is the difference in tone between saying 'I love you' and 'What will you eat tonight'? Can you answer without hesitation what clothes your wife wore yesterday and what date her menstrual period was last month?
Many married men who "hang out" outside, the women around them are not his wives. He will openly tell you that it is his "girlfriend". At this point, there is no need to ask again. He no longer loves his wife. Looking at his proud expression, you will have an impulse to spit at him. But the first person to be despised is not them, but those who show great understanding of their words and actions. Without the support and envious gaze of these people, how could there be so many "Qin Xianglian" who are in dire straits but have not yet been liberated?
There may not be many men who love their wives anymore. The standard is not whether they are divorced or have an affair, but rather the exchange of love. Unfortunately, men who do not love their wives are still maintaining a marriage without love, because that is the damn responsibility around a man's neck. Be grateful that they will be bound by such and such reasons, still giving their wives a disguise of stability. But also hate them, because they actually think their hypocrisy is just a "white lie", and they are still smearing the dust on their deception. Surviving loyal men should be proud to love only one woman in their lifetime, until they grow old and die. This is already a fairy tale. Love is operated by two people together, not the responsibility of either party!
