Post Date December, 03 2023
The so-called virgin complex of men is actually related to their fragile and sensitive nerves. It is just something that immature and self-awareness strong men wish for.
It is often said that "a man always longs to be the first man to become the woman he loves, while a woman is the last woman to hope to be her man." This statement may in a sense reflect the differences between men and women in the way they love.
Indeed, a man always desires to be the first man to become his woman in the depths of his heart, which is what we call the virgin complex. In traditional weddings, the bride wears a pure and flawless wedding dress, symbolizing that her heart and body dedicated to her lover are as pure and flawless as the wedding dress she wears.
This concept of promoting virginity has been continued from ancient times to the present.
If the woman is not a virgin, then even in modern times, there may be trouble after marriage. In contrast, women's demands for men's chastity appear very thin. Among women, almost no one requires their marriage partner to maintain their virginity.
So what is the reason for the difference in chastity concepts between men and women?
In the depths of a man seeking a virgin, in addition to his longing for something untouched, there is also a desire to manipulate the woman he loves according to his own wishes. Specifically, this includes a man's expectation, which is: "If she can date a woman who is still a virgin, won't she be able to mature sexually as she imagined
But looking at it from a different perspective, we will find that this idea also hides a male mentality that believes that men can transform women as they please and view women as playthings.
Talking about playthings may be excessive, but the idea that men want to be in a dominant position is undeniable.
The phenomenon of excessive admiration for virgins and the idea that men can transform women as they please can be said to be a product of a male centered society. The so-called chastity and virginity complex are just unilateral desires of men.
