Qianqian received a letter from her boyfriend today. It said: "Dear, I miss you! I miss your long hair, light blue eyes, tall cheekbones, and the dimple on your right mouth is more attractive than the one on the left when you smile. There are two identical tiger teeth and a slim figure of 1.62 meters."
Looking at this letter, Qianqian felt both happy and embarrassed. She also missed her boyfriend very much. But when she answered the letter, she cared about everything from his life to work, and finally attached a sentence "I miss you too" at the end.
From here, we can see the differences between men and women when expressing feelings.
In terms of emotional psychology, the difference between men and women is very obvious, which is shown as follows: men's emotions are mostly superficial and impulsive, while women's feelings are easy to experience deeply; Men have strong feelings of anger and fear, while women have more profound feelings of sadness and sadness; Male emotion is rough, while female emotion is exquisite; Women have more subjective feelings, while men are more rational and objective; Women's personal emotions are diffuse, while men's emotions are concentrated; A certain emotion will spread quickly among women, but very slowly among men; Men are more open-minded and have less emotional problems, while women are more narrow-minded and have more emotional problems; Women's words and deeds are emotional, while men's words and deeds are emotional.
There are also significant differences between men and women in emotional expression. Women's emotional expression often shows the characteristics of euphemism, implicativeness and warmth. Especially girls prefer to hide their true feelings. For example, when they are asked to give a "good" or "bad" evaluation of a person or thing, they often don't get a clear answer - they don't say they like what they like very much; Don't say hate to yourself. In fact, this can leave you a lot of choices.
In fact, women sometimes can't understand themselves and don't know who they are. They often live by feeling without clear goals and objectives. This is one reason why women express their feelings. When pursued by men, women will also be more ambiguous. This can increase the mystery and attraction of men, make men pursue themselves boldly and enthusiastically and test their sincerity. Men, on the other hand, prefer to be straightforward in expressing their feelings. They don't hide their true feelings and will make clear decisions. Good is good, bad is bad, and won't be vague.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)