Chen Guotao, in his fifties, has achieved success in his career and has a stable and harmonious family. But he, who should have enjoyed the happiness of his family, became involved in extramarital affairs, and his peaceful life was shattered from then on.
Chen Guotao's extramarital affair behavior surprised everyone. He was originally an intellectual and received strict education from a young age. His personality is mature, steady, sincere, and has a strong sense of responsibility. The style in life is very upright, belonging to the "sit still" class. But why did he do things that were immoral and even self destructive to his family? Everything arises from emotional debt.
Decades ago, Chen Guotao was sent to remote rural areas as an educated youth. There, the lives of intellectuals were unbearable, but Chen Guotao encountered his "first spring", Oda, in the midst of hardship. Cheng Guotao, who was young and energetic, was not yet mentally mature. The appearance of Oda gave him a hope and a hope. In a depressed and oppressive environment, Oda is the only object that Chen Guotao can confide in and rely on. The two sparked a spark of love and had a sexual relationship.
Several years have passed, and Chen Guotao can finally return to his own place. Before leaving, he vowed to come back to pick up Oda. But Chen Guotao didn't know that the other party was already pregnant with his flesh and blood
Returning to the city, Chen Guotao gradually forgot his oath and forgot about Oda. He began to work hard for a new life. However, the debt of emotions will eventually be repaid. Cheng Guotao has entered his middle and late years, and his life and career have become stable. At this moment, Xiaotian has raised the crystallization of their love, and for the future happiness of her children, she has gone through countless hardships and brought them to the city to search for Chen Guotao.
When Oda met Chen Guotao with his child, the old man shed tears. In order to appease Xiaotian and his own flesh and blood, Chen Guotao bought a house for them without telling anyone and placed it in the city where he lived. Once upon a time, love seemed to have been awakened, and Chen Guotao gradually placed the center of his life on Oda Muko. This also prompted his extramarital affair to be exposed.
There are gains and losses, and the return of old love has impacted his current life, leaving Chen Guotao in a dilemma
Extramarital love may be about paying off bad debts
Some middle-aged people in life may cheat for different purposes than young people. Middle aged people have witnessed the changes of the times, gone through many bumpy paths, and colleagues have also made irreversible mistakes. Emotional debt is one of them.
Many people who were once sent to rural areas as educated youth owe "promiscuous debts", to the extent that they become "evil debts" in the future. The most common case is when an educated youth enters middle age and their lover or loved one from decades ago comes to their door with their own flesh and blood. Faced with this situation, the "debtor", feeling guilty and regretful, chose to "step on two boats" to make up for their sins. Extramarital love also arises.
This type of extramarital love often starts with redemption, with the aim of compensating the other party. Nevertheless, this extramarital affair cannot be forgiven. The 'debtor' has already failed love, and if they fail another end of their relationship by paying off their debt, it will definitely not be worth the loss. Moreover, emotional debt cannot be paid off at all.