Post Date December, 02 2023
Introduction
The emergence of a third party in a family is not due to the nature of the husband's playboy nature, or because most marriages encounter conflicts, the third party takes advantage of the opportunity to enter.
If a third party invades, most of the responsibility lies with the man, but ultimately it is marital dissatisfaction that can lead to an affair with the man.
So, what factors are prone to third parties?
1. Marriage of strong women
The marriage of strong women derails, and the vast majority of them do not have lovers. However, strong women do have responsibilities. It is their "strength" that has killed their husbands' self-esteem and vanity as a man.
"In many cases, their infidelity involves finding a woman close to them to talk to. As long as the other party gives them more comfort and encouragement, it is easy to fall in love.".
2. Marriage of a full-time wife
In real life, there are always some wives who think that once they get married, they have a dependency, give up their previous work and study, and settle down to becoming "full-time wives" at home, resulting in a dependency mentality. This leads to the fact that when the husband climbs to a certain height, the wife still stays at the foot of the mountain.
At this time, there will definitely be other women around the husband, and over time, they will grow in love with each other.
3. A marriage without children
Children are the biggest "finished product" of marriage and the "bond" that maintains the relationship between husband and wife. It's easy to handle couples who just don't want to have children for a moment, but in case one partner, especially the woman, is not fertile, the husband can easily cheat.
4. A marriage where the door is not open and the door is not open
Generally, when choosing a spouse, people tend to speak from door to door. However, nowadays, many people, especially young people after the 1980s and 1990s, advocate the principle of "love first", and even if there are significant differences between the other party and themselves, they will break through the secular and various obstacles to come together.
However, when their real minds are warmed up, they will find many problems, such as lack of common language, unsatisfied marital life, etc. Once they are unable to find a solution to the problem, one party will be tempted to give up the idea of "staying together for a lifetime" slowly, and as long as they need to be "in the same class" with themselves, they will sneak through the motions and cheat.
5. A patriarchal marriage
Unlike the childless marriages mentioned above, this type of marriage is more related to regions and families. The vast majority of marital infidelities caused by this phenomenon are due to pressure from the husband's family or their own serious "chauvinism" and "son preference" ideology.
It is usually these men who cheat and have illegitimate children before being discovered by their wives, or take the initiative to persuade their wives to divorce or even accept the facts.
