Post Date December, 03 2023
In fact, most arguments between couples are between the head of the bed and the end of the bed, but there are some exceptions that violate these taboos. It's okay to argue, but it's absolutely important to keep your mouth shut and avoid saying things that hurt others.
1. Bring up divorce when you argue
Do not speak harshly in anger, such as: I was really blind in the first place to see you! Okay, if you can't make it, then leave! Like this, it's like whoever dares not leave is destined to become a grandson. In the long run, hearing divorce makes me numb, and it doesn't seem like a big deal. Let's just leave, and then I will truly regret it.
2. Cursing parents
Fighting is a matter of two people. You can scold him, but you must not include his parents, otherwise even if you have reason, it will become unreasonable.
3. Likes to dig up old accounts
Since you have already reconciled, it means that the previous incident has been overturned. It is taboo to dig up old accounts during arguments, and one should adopt a matter-of-fact attitude.
4. Avoiding arguments and hurting the dignity of the other party
It is human nature to speak out freely during arguments, but everyone has a bottom line. If you hurt their self-esteem, even if they reconcile, it is difficult to return to their initial feelings.
5. Fighting in front of children
Since you have children, besides being a person, a wife/husband, what's more important is being a mother/father, and your every move will affect the growth of the child. Even if the relationship between the two is not good, do not argue in front of the child, otherwise it will bring serious shadows to the child and even scare them.
6. Fight hard
A quarrel is nothing more than verbally "talking" to each other, and verbally feeling that it can solve a problem is not something that comes at hand. Fighting is an upgrade that cannot be resolved through arguments. Generally, girls are the victims, and boys are definitely stronger than girls. I feel that men who beat their wives are not real men. If you have the ability, go out and beat outsiders.
