The beauty and sadness of marriage depend on the attitudes and behaviors of both spouses. Perhaps marital relationships may be influenced by personality and lifestyle when getting along, but as long as you learn eight things, these unfavorable factors will become a floating cloud.
1、 Learn to be tolerant
Many times, it is not the "big things" that violate principles that destroy marriage. Often, some careless details are more lethal. It may just be a habit, an attitude. Over time, marriage is consumed by disgust and disputes.
It's ridiculous that the promises made before marriage can't even beat a pair of smelly socks in the corner. But that's the truth. So learn to be tolerant. You should know that living with someone not only means you need to enjoy their strengths, but also to tolerate their shortcomings and past.
2、 Learn to trust
Sometimes, trust is closing one eye. For eternity, we have no choice.
3、 Learn to 'lose memory'
No matter how deeply and deeply loved you were with others before marriage, it is already a dream and will no longer become a reality. For the sake of living a happy life, forget it.>> The principle of harmonious coexistence between husband and wife after marriage
4、 Learn to respect
Respect him whether you love him or not. Of course, on the premise that he respects you. A marriage without dignity cannot be happy.
5、 Don't forget independence
Don't resign easily. Save some private money for a rainy day. This world is very realistic. We can leave anyone, the only thing is we can't leave money.
6、 Learn to communicate
Communication is not nagging, this scale is difficult to grasp. But it's better than silence between couples. Silence can be compromise or contempt. But more of a weapon, it can easily destroy your emotions. Unless you have the courage to face a cold war like marriage. Otherwise, don't be stingy with language.
7、 Learn to maintain beauty
Marriage life is like a file, which can easily ruin your appearance without a sound. Don't expect anyone to be moved by this. Be careful to protect yourself, you will feel more secure.
8、 Learn to take responsibility
Marriage condenses the entire world into two people. You are no longer a single aristocrat who feeds your own food and even your dog. We should take on our own responsibilities in the family.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)