Post Date April, 15 2023
In a man's world, besides his wife, there is also a close friend. This friend may be a male or a female, also known as a confidante.
In marital life, if a husband is too close to other members of the opposite sex, even normal communication can lead to dissatisfaction from the wife, and the appearance of a confidant can deepen this emotion. Some wives even view their husbands' confidants as romantic enemies, leading to various conflicts and disputes, and in severe cases, leading to a desperate marriage.
A confidant is not a rival in love
In fact, the husband's confidant is not a rival in love. Many men lack communication with their loved ones after marriage, and the trivial matters in life make both parties neglect spiritual communication. When a man is feeling depressed or frustrated, he needs spiritual release. A considerate confidant can satisfy him.
Sometimes, men have to pose in front of their wives, saying that it is natural for men to live tiredly. In front of their female confidants, men can appear very relaxed, very self centered, and honest. Therefore, many men's first thoughts when they encounter problems in their lives or careers are not their wives, but their confidants. A wife is a confidant, while a confidant is a listener.
However, in the eyes of the wife, the confidant of the beauty has taken over the husband's spirit, causing their spirit to deviate and even causing extramarital love. So, even if the confidant of a beauty is limited to friendship, it may still become a true enemy.
Don't let your confidant become the cause of extramarital love trouble
For men, having a confidant is a peace of mind, but for women, it is a heart disease. Many men are fortunate enough to have a beautiful confidant, who may regard her as the gentlest secret in their hearts, but often this causes chaos and anxiety in their families, making innocent friends victims as well.
Men should adhere to several principles: they should have a tolerance for their confidants. It is important to remember that 'friendship between gentlemen is as light as water', and not to keep in touch with confidants too frequently, and not to discuss topics too deeply; The meeting time should not be too late, the location should not be too hidden, etc; Don't look for your confidante for everything. Men should remember that she is just one of your many friends.
Wives can also become confidants
If you want to avoid your husband entrusting his spirit to other women, your wife must take on the role of confidant. Wives should try their best to establish a common language and habits between each other, creating an atmosphere for mutual conversation. When two people are talking, the wife should try to avoid blaming each other, say less that may harm each other, and say more words of encouragement and praise, but never use nagging as communication.
The wife should actively express herself and let the other party understand her heart. More importantly, tell your husband the good feelings in a timely manner. When the husband speaks, the wife should actively listen and provide timely feedback.
The communication between couples should also choose the best timing. Only by communicating at the appropriate time can we achieve the desired results. Wives should be good at selecting and creating opportunities for private conversations when communicating with their husbands. In addition, the wife also needs to pay attention to her husband's emotions and choose appropriate topics. When the husband is in a bad mood, she should not talk about some thorny issues to avoid adding insult to injury.
