Post Date December, 02 2023
Men have a problem, that is, they are most afraid to let women say they are "incompetent" in bed, or "not good enough"
Each love will make people have different experiences. From the perspective of women, new and old lovers always have different highlights. However, no matter how much the old lover makes you feel and how excited the new lover makes you, I suggest you not to compare the two, especially in terms of sexual ability or performance in bed. Don't think it is just a small matter, and you may hurt the other party without knowing it.
self-respect
Men actually have a problem, that is, they are most afraid to let women say that they are "incompetent" in bed, or "not good enough"; This kind of criticism often directly reminds him of his poor performance, and will hurt his self-esteem. If women often mention the performance of their old lovers in bed, it is easy for men to have unnecessary fantasies, or fantasies, and feel that no matter how hard they try, they can't compare with other men.
Besides, if you make love with your boyfriend and insist that the other party treat you the same way as your old lover, it will only make your boyfriend behave worse. You should know that sexual interest is always a very personal matter. If the male partner feels that his performance in bed is not as good as his previous boyfriend for a long time, his confidence will be greatly damaged, and his performance will only be worse, which is not good for both parties.
feelings of jealousy
No matter how open the boyfriend's mind is, women should not be unbridled. Men are a jealous animal. If you mention too many previous sexual experiences in front of men, you will have an unexpected fantasy of the girlfriend having sex with her ex-boyfriend.
You may think this is abnormal, but in fact, many men have this idea, and the lethality of this false illusion cannot be ignored, which may definitely increase the pressure on the current boyfriend, and even generate hatred.
Hateful heart
When you think that your girlfriend will relish the warm scene with her former boyfriend, it is more difficult to suppress the anger of men. In order to escape, I probably don't want to sleep with my girlfriend again. When there is disharmony in our sexual life, it is inevitable that our feelings will break down.
As the saying goes: people are more than people, more than dead people. In terms of sex, if you make a comparison and complain that your boyfriend's bed skills are not as good as your old love, you will not only destroy the harmonious relationship with your boyfriend, but will also be unable to enjoy a happy sex life.
(Intern editor: Liu Jinhao)
