On our first date, we all want to present our most elegant side, but sometimes God is against us. Some of the things you say and do inadvertently, although unintentional, just make the other person very uncomfortable. Today, let's talk about the four biggest mistakes that men and women should not make on first dates.
1. Congee on the phone during dating
Whether you are a man or a woman, this kind of brainy behavior is absolutely prohibited. If you keep talking on the phone in front of the opposite person, the other person will think you are hinting at him that "it's impossible for us.". "Unless your family has an urgent matter with you, before dating, be sure to turn off the phone or turn it off to silence, in order to avoid causing misunderstanding to the other party and jeopardizing the success of the date.".
2. Mention your ex girlfriend
Although it is said that women are all jealous, men are also the same. If a man casually mentions his ex girlfriend in front of a woman, the other party will think that you have not actually forgotten her. This way, you will make a woman very disgusted, and even you have no possibility of continuing dating. Men should especially remember this point, and women should not mention their ex boyfriends in front of men. Men will feel embarrassed.
3. Dirty and untidy appearance
"No one wants to spend their entire lives with a scruffy person. If you meet someone for the first time, they will be scruffy and likely" scare "them away. Moreover, with your scruffy image, the other person will think that you don't care about this date at all, so you are likely to mess up this date without knowing it.".
4. Consumption AA system
Since you're on a first date, you can't walk down the street with two people. After you go to a coffee shop or restaurant to have a meal and chat, when paying the bill, men must not ask women such questions as "who pays" or "we have an AA system". Who is willing to spend their entire lives with such a stingy and fussy man? A stingy man is the last thing women want to see.