Post Date April, 15 2023
Around us, some people divorce because they no longer love each other, or because one of them is cheating. Few people divorce when they love each other. However, loving each other does not mean that there is no noise in life. After some "small things" between husband and wife accumulate to a certain extent, they can also lead to marriage breakdown.
Lu Yang and Xu Qian are a couple who have been married for ten years. The two people who were in free love once eloped because of the obstruction of their parents. Lu Yang is handsome, Fang Gang and Xu Qian are beautiful and petite. They eloped and registered their marriage soon after. In this way, the two people lived a fairy life in a different place.
Many people believe that marriage is the tomb of love, and love will either stop or die when it comes to marriage. The same is true of the love between Lu Yang and Xu Qian. Although they love so much that they can choose to elope together, they have not escaped the end of the broken marriage.
In the ninth year of their marriage, Lu Yang, who has already had a career, began to be different from before. Now, after seeing the colorful outside world, he always feels that his wife needs to improve in many places. He always talks about other women to his wife after returning home, not only because they have high education, but also because they know how to maintain. The same age is not only much better than her, but also much younger and more fashionable than her. As soon as Xu Qian began to hear her husband's dissatisfaction with her, she began to work hard to learn and change herself. But who knows that her husband did not see her efforts, but instead changed into Ben Galli, who would praise other women in front of Xu Qian almost every day.
In this way, Xu Qian feels more and more inferiority and grievance under the constant comparison of Lu Yang. She doesn't understand why her husband can't see his own merits, but always compares others with himself. Over time, Xu Qian gradually became tired of her husband, and finally left Lu Yang in a rage when she quarreled with her husband.
Couples should not compare others with each other
There is nothing wrong with people's pursuit of beauty, but if we continue to pursue beauty in our marriage, such marriage will not last long. No one is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings more or less, but we can't always compare these shortcomings with others. The result of such comparison may bring some reminders or improvement information to the place, but more importantly, it will cause psychological damage to the other party.
These injured people often make a decision to break up or divorce under the condition of inferiority and disappointment. They may still love each other deeply, but they can't stand the endless contrast and have to leave each other in love.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
