No one is truly flawless, because any man will have some "distorted" psychology to some extent. However, if these psychological distortions are excessive, it will greatly affect your romantic path.
Don't breed 5 types of "twisted" psychology
1、 Absolute self psychology.
This kind of man regards whether the lover he is looking for is beneficial to his "future" as the only unbreakable condition. He asked his girlfriend to constantly showcase her "advantages" and bring him some benefits. Once his expectations are not met or there is a possibility of not meeting them, he will become angry and even feel that you have failed him.
2、 Logical error association.
This type of man is usually characterized by association and suspicion. He generally values love highly, but has a narrow understanding and is very sensitive to the actions of his lover. Once a girlfriend does something he cannot understand or is unhappy with, he will "brainstorm" and mechanically find evidence that you are not aligned with him.
3、 Non emotional transfer into psychology.
This type of man lacks empathy when evaluating and treating his girlfriend, and does not empathize and empathize with her. Especially when a girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs to be treated emotionally, they withdraw or ignore her. He can only share joy with you and cannot share difficulties with you.
4、 Adapt to excitement.
This type of man generally likes fashion and has a keen sense of sensitivity, but lacks autonomy and confidence. His individual consciousness is influenced by external trends, and he particularly likes trendy women. Pay attention to the appearance and image of your girlfriend, such as her appearance, hairstyle, and clothing, and be willing to invest in this area for her. However, once you cannot adapt to his "aesthetic" requirements, he will complain incessantly.
5、 Error contrasts with psychology.
This type of man often compares his strengths with those of his girlfriend, or compares his girlfriend's weaknesses with those of others. This type of man can quickly discover your strengths and appreciate them when they start dating you, and your relationship will also skyrocket. But if he discovers that your strengths are so inconspicuous, he will become indifferent to you, and this indifference often makes you elusive and even becomes a temptation, making you feel even more mysterious.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)