In the emotional game of love, we often hear the word "spare tire", and we have to admit that many brothers have had the experience of being a spare tire. Although we all know that this is not what we want, we will all hope that one day she will turn back and feel our efforts. One day she will be touched, and then change her mind and finally come together. But the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and the result is often so unsatisfactory.
Today's promise is to talk about how the spare tire can counter attack, let the brothers get rid of the "good guy card", and no longer be an emotional trash can. I hope you guys in the spare tire period have a good look!
Unique you
There is always a long distance between ideal and reality. There are few stories about being with the goddess you like. When you see her you love with other men, or even with a man you hate. When you are with a man who is not as good as you, you understand that you are wrong. Everything is a dream, just a bubble.
You will think, where am I wrong? If you are still confused, please continue to read. Perhaps the following article will change your love. Being different is the key for us to catch up with girls. At least in my understanding, it is very important. Because you are different, women will notice you. You are a very ordinary person and will not be noticed.
The other is that I think the difference will emerge from the numerous spare tires of women, and the sister will see you, and will want to be curious about you and explore you. At this stage, it is very beneficial to your counterattack! This is the first condition for you to attack your sister.
Speaking of these, many brothers asked, what should I do? Being different, as the name implies, means being different from others and doing different things. Of course, this does not mean that you should do something special. It is to do something different from others within a certain range. Let's take an example. When a girl needs help, I believe many people will rush to her. But when she needs you, you can say, "Let's finish it together, or you can help me do it." In this way, she will remember you faster, because you are different from them. It is not a man who can only be courteous, and it is possible that when you do this together, a casual little interaction will inadvertently close your distance.
Everyone has his unique characteristics, so when you magnify the good characteristics, you may have unexpected gains. Because you are unique at that time, the probability of girls noticing you will increase, and the unknown will always be transparent.
Good popularity and many female friends
Speaking of this, it involves a sense of need. Many times you are particularly obedient to a girl you care about. What is the reason for this? Because you are afraid of losing. Because you have less female circle, but when you have more female friends, this problem will be solved. Because some of your female friends must have good feelings for you. In this way, your sense of need will also decrease because you have at least the right to choose, because you are not alone with her.
When you have the right to choose a woman, you will naturally not be the spare tire of your goddess again. Slowly leave her, slowly understand women better, and then contact with the goddess will show some high-value behavior. At this time, you will have the opportunity to attack the goddess.
Do it boldly
Brothers, don't pay attention blindly, because it will not only expose your sense of need, but also make women feel that you are easy to get. Let's imagine that when you play a very easy game, will you play it for the second time?
The same is true of love. When the game is easy to pass, your value will disappear. So we should pay in principle. When we are friends, we should do things between friends. Proper little ambiguity is necessary, but it is inappropriate to do it too deliberately. Women know what men want to do. What we need to do is make the game more interesting.
In this process, don't be afraid to further develop, or you will enter the "friendship zone". So it is also possible to take the initiative to do some ambiguous things at the appropriate time. Because if you dare not take the initiative to hold her hand at the critical moment. In this way, women will feel that you are not man enough and miss the chance to become a spare tire. Therefore, it is also a key point to be brave enough to enter and move women.