Post Date March, 03 2023
[Q]
It's heartbreaking. I have been in love for a long time, and I have encountered a mistress.
Like all women who don't want to believe, I can't believe that my husband will cheat. The two families have always been friendly. My husband and I have known each other since childhood. I always called my husband brother until I was admitted to the same university. My husband asked me for love.
The elders have long recognized the relationship between my husband and me, and the two adults have always talked about the baby kiss as a joke. This is a happy and beautiful feeling, with the blessings of everyone, without any twists and turns and suffering. Love sweeter than honey, I think I can always have it.
Not long after we got married, we had a baby. We both grew up in an excellent family. Both of us are children. We have no sense of responsibility to be parents at all. Especially our husband, who is a special pet of the only son in his family, graduated from college, and I went to work in my uncle's company safely. My husband, like a tourist, has no ambition and can't stay anywhere long. His father-in-law and mother-in-law are used to him. If his husband is not happy to work, they will also let him. Don't let him interfere in anything at home.
I am not accustomed to such a situation. I am also in a bad temper. It's hard to avoid saying a few words about him. It's probably the time that the contradictions are accumulated. He spends less and less time at home. I have to take care of the children. Although I have hired my sister-in-law, I can't spare time to take care of him.
At first, two people, dating is to eat, drink and play, and suddenly fell into the smoke of life, confused him and frustrated me.
Many times the children cry at night. I, my sister-in-law and my mother take turns to coax them, but they can't coax them. At that time, I am really sad, and I also cry. My mother is no longer ready to ask why my husband doesn't come home so late. In fact, the frequency and frequency of his coming home have been reminded by both adults. He turns a deaf ear and goes his own way.
In the deep of the night, if it weren't for my family, if I took care of the children by myself, I'm not sure whether I can persist.
I can tolerate anything. I can't stand the moment when I found that he had a junior outside. I have a complete attack. At that time, most of the things at home were smashed. Finally, he flopped down on his knees and begged me to forgive him, regardless of whether he would be stabbed by those ragged fragments.
He said he would break, and he said he would break.
Should I forgive? Should I forgive? I really hate that he doesn't know how to cherish. We can walk more easily and smoothly than others, but he just wants to make trouble and smear our feelings! But seeing him pleading like that, I don't know how to decide.
Does marriage mean that the eyes must contain sand?
[Answer]
When his knee is soft, your heart is also soft. It is easy to close your eyes without thinking about it. You have to bear the risks and consequences.
What is the risk? There are countless examples of him dragging you, the third is more powerful, coaxing men to transfer property.
What are the consequences? Since then, men have implemented one husband, two systems, one set of words and deeds at home and one set of practices outside, and you can only let them control.
Sometimes the wife can't judge whether the man's apology is misguided, because the wife is more inclined to believe that the man will admit his mistake, will feel guilty, and will return to the family, while most of the cheating men, when the relationship with the third party is stable, apologize is only an instinctive means of reconciliation after the cheating behavior is discovered by the wife.
Women should know that since the other party can be a third party, they need more than money, love and sex. Their desire and ambition are weapons. If you don't defend them, they will destroy the family you have built.
