Does enlarged clitoris make orgasm easier to come by? Discordant sexual life can lead to orgasmic disorders

Female orgasmic disorder is a manifestation of abnormal sexual function, which can seriously affect the relationship between couples, especially the physical health of women. We need to overcome various difficulties and actively engage in reasonable sexual activity.

Four misconceptions about orgasm among women

1. It is indeed possible to see cases of clitoral hypertrophy, but questioning their sexual history often reveals that they have widely used one or more mechanical stimulation methods. Of course, the first step is to rule out the impact of persistent androgens (whether it is excessive secretion by the adrenal glands in the body or exogenous effects obtained through oral or intramuscular injection).

In principle, the clitoris only has connective tissue such as elastic fibers and smooth muscle fibers, so various mechanical or manual stimuli will not produce proliferation reactions that are easily seen on the striated muscles. Through physical exercise, the muscles of the arms and legs can be developed, but smooth muscle proliferation must not be caused. Just like the male penis, it is difficult to make the penis grow and thicken through instruments such as negative pressure suction devices, and the incredible reason behind breast implants lies in this.

2. Throughout history, it has been believed that the size of the clitoris is directly related to a woman's sexual ability. But neither laboratory nor clinical observation studies have received clear evidence to support this view, so women do not need to worry about the size of their clitoris.

3. In the past, the position of the clitoris on the anterior boundary of the pubic symphysis was always regarded as an important factor affecting women's sexual response. People often believe that if the clitoris is located low, the chances of direct contact with the penis during sexual intercourse will also increase. In fact, no matter how low its position is, it won't help, let alone the retraction reaction of the clitoris during the platform period! This further eliminates the possibility of even a theoretical direct collision between two organs.

4. Various marriage manuals and guides repeatedly emphasize how to directly stimulate the clitoris with the penis during sexual intercourse between couples. In fact, direct friction between the penis and clitoris cannot occur unless a man makes special efforts to make the penis stem directly adhere to the woman's entire clitoris. When sexual tension is highly increased, it is difficult for the man to maintain this high overlapping position during sexual intercourse, especially when the woman's vaginal opening is tight and has not yet reached the level of relaxation that is typical of a postpartum woman. Women often complain about discomfort in the vaginal opening or rectum. At this point, the penis cannot be fully inserted into the depths of the vagina, so the vaginal dilation that the male penis should feel will completely disappear. Therefore, in order to better stimulate the clitoris and stimulate female sexual desire more quickly, the method of gently rubbing the female clitoris with an erect penis before sexual intercourse can also be used. It is an ideal, clever, and practical method that is very popular with women.

The causes of female orgasmic disorders

1. Female genital diseases: such as abnormal dysplasia of reproductive organs, low ovarian function, inflammatory diseases, endocrine diseases, etc., will also affect female libido. There are many reasons for women's low or lack of sexual desire. Therefore, in order to improve a woman's sexual desire, it is necessary to find the reasons for her lack of sexual desire and take corresponding measures based on the reasons.

2. Sexual disharmony between men and women: The husband does not understand the psychological and reactive characteristics of women, and when sexual desire arises, he hastily acts. The woman's sexual desire has not yet been or has just been stimulated, but he has already completed the task. At this moment, the woman did not taste any joy at all. She was used as a tool by men to vent her desires, how could she still be interested?

3. Lack of understanding of one's own body: Many reports have pointed out that women have a high probability of achieving orgasm by understanding their sexual experiences. Therefore, to go crazy with your partner, you first need to understand yourself.

4. Short foreplay: Some couples are very impatient and do not give women enough time to get excited. Generally, women need about 20 minutes of foreplay to enter a substantial sexual state. Therefore, exploring various means to relax and fully warm up her is a necessary preparation for orgasm.

5. Sex can only be 'done': Sex expert Laura Borman pointed out that only 30% of women can reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, while most women may need to stimulate other sensitive parts of the body to achieve it.

Treatment methods for female orgasmic disorders

1. Western medicine treatment

Etiological treatment: find out the cause of female onset, and treat the primary disease, such as diabetes, consumptive disease, vitamin deficiency, hypothyroidism, etc., which can cause orgasm disorder.

Drug treatment: Western medicine treatment for orgasmic disorders mainly uses sex hormones, local stimulants, or lubricating gel to wipe the clitoris.

Psychological therapy: Learn relevant knowledge of sexual physiology, adjust one's emotions and mindset with the help of a doctor, and reduce negative emotions such as anxiety about sexual life.

Surgical treatment: If the loss of sexual pleasure caused by vaginal relaxation leads to orgasmic disorders, surgical plastic surgery can be performed to increase the tension of vaginal muscles.

2. Traditional Chinese Medicine Treatment

Traditional Chinese medicine believes that this disease is characterized by liver depression and kidney deficiency, and treatment should focus on soothing the liver and relieving depression, nourishing the kidney and strengthening yang.

Diet therapy: 100g white poria cocos, 250g red dates, 180g walnut meat, and 3l white honey. First boil the white honey, then add the first three medicines, mix it well and boil it with low heat, then pour it into the jar, add 10L Baijiu, and 5L glutinous rice Baijiu into the jar;

Next, stir 30 grams of Astragalus membranaceus, ginseng, Atractylodes macrocephala, Angelica sinensis, Chuanxiong, Paeonia lactiflora, raw and cooked ground, fennel, raspberry, tangerine peel, agarwood, woody incense, goji berries, osmanthus officinale, amomum villosum, licorice, frankincense, myrrh, and Schisandra chinensis each, grind them into fine powder, add them to the jar, stir well, seal and place them in a pot. Boil over high heat for 2 hours, remove them from the soil, and remove them after 3 days.

Take 1-2 small cups three times a day, do not get drunk, tonify qi, nourish spleen and moisten dryness, and can be used for various types of orgasmic disorders.

Regulation of orgasmic disorders

1. Use sexual fantasy: the idea of "sex" will stimulate the production of endorphins in the body, providing the effect similar to the hormone produced during orgasm. Before enjoying the pleasure of fish and water with your crush, you can reminisce about your previous passionate games. If the situation allows, it's even better to stimulate sensitive areas on your own and let the passion boil; When chatting with him, don't forget to think about the exciting scenes and simulated performances in the A film, to ensure that you are immediately passionate and the climax is rolling in.

2. Greedy requirement: In order to seize just a few minutes for satisfaction and pleasure, when engaging in speeding sex, you should abandon all etiquette and reserve, and directly tell the other party your needs frankly. Female, you can turn into a fierce prodigal woman and ask her to quickly insert, delve deeper, or move more fiercely without feeling sentimental.

3. Blinded sex: More enjoyable than blind sex! The visual sovereignty of having sex with closed eyes still lies with oneself, but when the eyes are blindfolded, the entire world enters a dark period; You need to distinguish direction by touch or hearing. The mysterious experience brought by being blindfolded is exciting and exciting! Because it is invisible, other sensory perceptions become acute, and ordinary affairs can create unprecedented surprises, forming the best sexual stimulation. You can exchange blindfolds with each other, experiencing complete control over each other's bodies and the pleasure of being controlled.

4. Erogenous zone surprise: the most taboo of sex is unchangeable. The biggest culprit of getting tired over time is not seeking breakthrough. "The skin is the largest sexual organ of the human body", and the erogenous zone varies from person to person. Although it is quick and accurate to target sexual organs, unexpected touch often causes amazing stimulation. Don't let her figure out your moves, just like in a martial arts competition. Although there are routines to follow in martial arts, the more you can be captivated, the more you can captivate the opponent. Inadvertently sneak into her erogenous zone, making her peripheral nerves happy.

5. Strong Kissing: Kissing is the best sexual law to promote sexual desire. In order to have high-quality and heartwarming sex, kissing is the key to making her want to be immortal and die. It can be called a foreplay cannon, conveying passion through kissing and allowing women to feel the strong affection of men. Even without the act of mating, one can still activate their body and mind through kissing each other. The lips and breasts of women are the primary strongholds for men to conquer cities and territories. If men speak quickly and accurately, it will make women happy and sesame open the door.