Post Date December, 03 2023
Many girls, do you really understand what boys are thinking? In fact, many boys think very simply, it's not as complex as you imagine. Some things should not be so persistent, and boys should not force themselves to say things if they don't want to. However, as boys become increasingly distant from you, girls should pay attention, as it is likely that boys are really leaving you.
Even when it comes to having to say something, boys may choose to use the method of human evaporation to "say" breakup. What are the boys thinking?
Men and women in a passionate relationship always crave to get tired of being together day and night, but when the enthusiasm fades and girls continue to look for boys like in a passionate relationship, boys may say, "I'm busy," "I didn't look at my phone," or "Don't think too much." Is that really true? No, their hearts are saying, 'You're very annoying!'
Why aren't you busy when you're in love? Why do you watch your phone all day when you're in love? Why don't you think too much when you're in love? When a boy withdraws from a period of intense love, he may start to devote more energy to other places, and even possibly to other girls. Therefore, boys will also feel annoyed by girls who take up a lot of their time.
But when you think he's getting too far, you say goodbye to him, but he says no to you, and he comes to save you. But is it really the case? Actually, it's also fake. Boys are just afraid of losing because they don't expect more in their hearts, nor do they want girls to give more. They want to stay the same. They are afraid that they will regret it after breaking up, afraid of unexpected things that will happen after breaking up, and afraid that they will bear certain curses after breaking up. Therefore, they will not attempt to gain more by breaking up like girls do. On the contrary, they will retain girls in order to make the situation as sustainable as possible.
But do guys really always want to stay the same? Actually, it's not either. In fact, he just doesn't want to put in more effort or bear more responsibility. If it is to maintain the status quo, he does not need to pay more, nor does he need to bear the responsibility and blame of abandoning his other half. That's why they said, "Don't think too much. That's right, they do want you not to think so much, but it's not to say that you shouldn't think so much.
Therefore, when a boy reaches a point where he doesn't want to give anything to you at all, even if he has to bear great notoriety and risk, he doesn't want to give anything to you anymore, and he will choose to break up. We can grasp a principle: boys are afraid of being annoyed and also afraid of being responsible. So whether you bother him or use responsibility to force him, it will achieve the maximum counter effect. So, when a boy wants to break up, he also chooses the most annoying and evasive way of breaking up, which is the evaporation style on earth.
We can find that both boys and girls are actually deceiving each other. The difference is that when a girl says goodbye, she actually wants to keep her; And when the boy says he wants to stay, he just wants you not to bother him. If we grasp the principle of boys being afraid of trouble and responsibility, we can analyze many behaviors of boys, such as avoiding everything and not taking the initiative.
However, regardless, if a boy likes a girl, even if he is afraid of trouble and responsibility, he will still strive to be good to his girlfriend, and all of this can be easily felt by girls. And if your boyfriend starts to dislike you and avoid you, it indirectly proves that his love for you is beginning to fade.
