Post Date December, 02 2023
1、 Intentionally sitting next to each other
There is a great deal of attention to the seating position in the wine market. Who sits in the main seat, who sits in the upper seat, and who sits inside, which is a fundamental issue that can sometimes rise to a principled height. You can't fit the wrong bag or get on the wrong bed. This statement can be used in the winery even if it is misplaced.
It seems that whoever sits next to each other is slightly more relaxed. Generally speaking, sitting next to each other is ambiguous and ambiguous. Especially when we meet for the first time, or when we have only seen two or three people, men and women are relatively unfamiliar and cannot let go of each other due to their face. We can only increase the ambiguity index by getting closer. He has a good impression of her, and she has ideas for him. After fixing the main position, she looks for an excuse to approach the other party. Once the goal is achieved, the ambiguous plan can be implemented smoothly, transitioning from primary ambiguity to advanced ambiguity, and ultimately the ambiguity is successful. That song sings well, please come close to me, don't let ambiguity walk away from me, I will be so ambiguous to the end.
Secondly, come up and ask for a phone call
It is understandable for men and women to leave contact information with each other when they first meet at a winery, which is also a hub for social communication. Some people are very unconscious in this regard, because if they want to be ambiguous and have an intention, they can just ignore it. I have a friend who loves to do this kind of thing. Whenever he meets a beautiful and charming woman who is a petty bourgeoisie, whether it's his first meeting with someone, whether they have a celebrity or not, whether their lover is present or not, and whether he provides communication opportunities, he always has the courage to ask for their phone number.
Of course, most people are embarrassed to refuse, allowing his ambiguous plot to succeed time and time again. Due to the direct and blunt way of asking for the phone, the obvious intention, and the lack of attention to the ambiguous elements after technical handling of the phone, it made everyone around him feel embarrassed. There was even more ambiguity behind him. After he asked about the phone, there was always a reason to look for someone else, perhaps a good thing could come true.
Thirdly, implement small actions
The difference between small actions and big actions is that big actions are bold, while small actions are cut corners and relatively low-key. This ambiguous expression can easily occur in relatively familiar people, where they have a certain foundation of liking each other, or one party takes the initiative but the other party does not care, often with the intention of probing and teasing. Small actions also include eye contact, a unique and indescribable radiance that is full of ambiguity and ambiguity. Even discerning people can taste it, and ambiguity and non ambiguity are different.
If it were broader, deliberately picking vegetables, pouring wine, and handing tissues to the other party, or even taking the initiative to drink on their behalf, silently engaging in courteous activities, it would also be an important component of small actions, with an ambiguous support behind them. Either both parties cooperate in ambiguity, or unilaterally engage in ambiguity, and there are always small actions that serve as language. Between men and women in non ambiguous relationships, their speech and actions are natural and sunny, and there is a clear distinction between them and ambiguous relationships.
Fourth, the mouth seems to be smeared with honey
Both men and women in the winery cannot avoid vulgarity. Everyone is willing to listen to sweet words, even if they know that the other party is flattering them against their will, they are unwilling to reveal public secrets. Some people say that ambiguity starts from the mouth, and the mouth is a transmitter of ambiguity. Based on my superficial research, this statement comes to light. When a man or a woman cannot communicate privately or has no opportunity to express themselves in secret, they will choose the breakthrough point on their lips, starting from their mouth, directly or indirectly, clearly or vaguely, all for conveying ambiguous information.
Especially the ambiguous meanings between men and women, no matter how they are concealed, there are always flaws to be exposed. For example, the degree to which one strives to please someone, almost to the point of being coquettish; For example, vigorously using unique words to highlight oneself and attract the attention of others; For example, toasting the other person without words, although the words do not convey the meaning, it is ambiguous in the wine.
Fifth, take home after drinking
I most dislike being entangled after drinking. Most of the time, when the bar breaks down, the program that needs to be left after socializing is completed, and I immediately leave. Not taking a ride and not willing to take a foot, which also saves a lot of trouble. Some people, as soon as they sit down, pay attention to the drunk route of their table mates, book car rides in advance, and especially enjoy taking rides to strangers of the opposite sex.
When encountering ungrateful people, they will politely refuse on the spot and find their own way home. Of course, there are also people who give up halfway and don't give up halfway. If both parties are pregnant with ambiguous genes, this is an ambiguous journey. In fact, for this type of person, actively requesting to be sent home is just an excuse to verify how high the ambiguity index is. It's possible that the car won't come out when it's delivered to home, or the car may turn around halfway and be delivered to a more ambiguous place than home again. How many ambiguous things happened on the way home, I'm afraid no one can explain.
