Post Date December, 03 2023
Many couples encounter this problem when they are in love or even when they get married. The man often thinks, 'Does this woman really love me?'? Did she marry me for my money? Will she accept me if I lose my job one day? Accompanying such thoughts can actually torture men. So as a woman, if you want to gain a man's heart, you must help women overcome these difficulties.
1. What she fell in love with was just a treat to dinner
Although I am only 26 years old, I already have such concerns: whether a woman is in love with me or my money. Because it is undeniable that our generation values material things much more than previous generations. So for women, taking the bill when it comes and offering more cost-effective advice is much more elegant than hiding in the restroom.
Although sometimes you have to pay the bill for dining out, when your boyfriend pays for your purchases at Starbucks, fruit shops, takeout, and dry cleaners, does it make you experience the taste of love?
2. If I lose my job, she will consider me a loser
For men, the psychological trauma of being seen as a failure is much greater than losing their income. Men often equate professional status with self-worth. Therefore, unemployment is far more than simply losing income for them.
So what should I do as a girlfriend? You can pour him a glass of top quality wine first, and then screen your social circle to see who can help your boyfriend submit a resume. In the current economic situation, people generally cannot find jobs without social connections and referrals from others.
3. She will be unfaithful to me
I trust my girlfriend 100% emotionally, but when betrayal between lovers becomes a common topic of discussion in movies, TV, and even songs, it seems possible for it to happen to anyone
For this issue, perhaps women are not willing to make such empty promises as "never" and will use other means to let their boyfriends know their sincerity. You can clearly tell him that you only have him in your heart, and being loyal to him is the most important thing you care about. Even if there are emotional bumps and turns in the future, you will still speak up and not cover up or even deceive him.
4. She won't like top-notch men
Before losing all my hair, striving every second may not necessarily lead to finding a woman who truly loves me. "Hair loss is a very heartbreaking thing for some men.
Therefore, it is very important to respect his sensitivity in this matter. An effective way to relieve men of this concern is to express the same concern about their hair loss. This will make the other party feel that losing hair is not a big deal, it will make them feel more secure about your relationship.
5. Once married, one will lose their own space
Women can respond to men's concerns with the following actions. Go to the gym with your girlfriend; Drinking and chatting with friends; Delve into one's own hobbies. Make him feel like he's just a part of your entire life, not the whole thing.
When not with him, also make your schedule full, so that there are always meaningful things to do. Only in this way can we create a space for truly 'two person time'. When he never sees you, he eagerly hopes to be included in your schedule.
6. I am not worthy of her
She is the cutest, smartest, and most beautiful woman I have ever met. I should be happy about it, but I often feel a lot of pressure inside. Sometimes I feel that her true love should not be me, but someone else who is more worthy of her. I often feel that I have shortcomings and shortcomings in certain aspects
Women should pay attention to letting the other party understand what they really like and appreciate about them. Women often speak up about each other's shortcomings. Little does it know that speaking more about the other person's strengths is more helpful in cultivating relationships. You can list the "ten places I admire you the most" in the email sent to him; When something makes you proud of him, be sure to let him know; Or you can often send text messages to cheer him on for his work and career.
Although men are always prone to wild thoughts, it is recommended that men consider carefully when falling in love. If you still harbor a lot of mixed doubts or thoughts about women after marriage, such love will not last long. It's better to say it clearly before marriage.
