Men are forced to take full responsibility during sexual activity, from the beginning of sexual activity to later tenderness, and must take responsibility one by one. Many women are not aware of their positive demands in sexual life, which brings invisible pressure to men.
Some wives say that foreplay takes a long time, and I like it. Therefore, the husband suppressed his excitement and quelled the impulse. Some wives say not to do this. Otherwise, my mood will not be so good. So, the husband tries to adapt to taking care of her mood.
I have also experienced this process, accustomed to constantly making demands during sexual life, never asking my husband about his sexual preferences, and enjoying the beauty of sex with his serious efforts. I hope to have orgasms every time, which puts my husband in the wrong place - he is responsible for his wife's orgasms.
Gradually, the husband realized that his payment was no longer about love, that sex became an obligation, and that a sense of oppression that had never existed before approached him. Therefore, sexual life becomes indifferent and numb. Afterwards, in order to avoid my sexual demands, I often stayed overnight outside. At this moment, I thought about whether there were any issues with my requirements. Through timely communication, we finally gained a beautiful and sexy feeling.
In fact, sexual life is a matter for couples, and both parties in love should be equal. While proposing their own sexual needs, they should also consider the other party's needs, that is, meeting their own needs and also considering the other party's feelings. As long as his wife's demands are met, the husband will feel invisible pressure and one day he will dislike sex.
During sexual activity, women unconsciously say that it puts pressure on their husbands and leads to a loss of interest in sex. Men ask, 'Is this okay?'? If the wife doesn't say it well, it will obviously lower her husband's confidence. Especially for some accusatory language, can you not consider your own comfort; If you are not satisfied, it may bring pressure to men.
Women who want to have more sexual pleasure should not forget to lighten their husbands' sexual burden first, pay attention to their speaking methods, and consider themselves as the protagonist of sexual life.