Post Date December, 03 2023
I believe that many men in love always make promises to each other, whether they are intentional or not, women will always easily believe it. In fact, if men cannot make promises, they don't need to be so eager to make them. Women should also listen for a while and not take them seriously, because no one knows what life will be like in the future, so why take them seriously? 9 men often lie, believe it or not!
1. After graduation, we will get married
Purpose: If unable to give temporarily, make up with an oath
Undoubtedly, this is the most common lie spoken by men born in the 1980s during their campus years - 'Once I graduate, I will marry you.' As a result, either they will cross the river before graduation, or they will go their separate ways due to work and family.
Men tend to overestimate their strength, so much so that they often do not consider their promises as lies. Because they overestimated their sense of responsibility, overestimated the responsibilities they could take on: the love and affection on campus, they could; But when it comes to getting married and starting a business, they will unconsciously retreat.
Reality is cruel, so is love. Men love to talk, women love to listen, it doesn't matter much; But men should not easily say it, and women should not easily get lost.
2. First love? I already forgot
Purpose: Most concerned about first love and not wanting to be violated
There is no woman who doesn't care about the other person's past. The past emotions of men are the mystery of a woman's life.
However, when men face these questions, it is indeed difficult to answer them. If she reveals some details, she will definitely continue to entangle and instead affect her emotions; If you use lies to perfunctory, you need to use more lies to complete. So, smart men usually use this lie to shield all problems.
After all, past events are emotions that he cannot forget. So, women should also try to learn tolerance; If he hadn't mentioned it, he might have already forgotten.
3. How could I deceive you
Purpose: To gain the trust of the other party and eliminate the doubts of the loved one
In the process of male and female communication, various suspicions may arise between men and women because both parties are not very familiar with their current situation. The best way to dispel a woman's doubts is nothing more than this' love word '.
Men take advantage of women's innate empathy, which is more easily moved, and consider the current level of love between the two parties, and may throw this statement out as appropriate. The stronger the relationship, the easier it is to succeed; On the contrary, it is easier to be detected.
Although sometimes this kind of lie can easily work, men should try to speak less without me. Otherwise, if caught, you will compensate with more lies; And some cannot be compensated for.
4. Believe me, you are the best girl I have ever seen
Purpose: To dispel suspicion and make her believe in uniqueness
How do you know she's your favorite until the next one? Perhaps this sentence is a powerful blow to debunk this lie.
People say, 'It's easy to find a woman who doesn't eat meat; it's too difficult to find a woman who doesn't eat jealousy.' Women always hope to be the only one in a man's heart. Men, it is precisely by taking advantage of a woman's caution, that they tell this lie and let the woman "throw herself in the arms".
In fact, as long as love is enough, why pursue the most beloved? Love the most, sometimes it doesn't mean I can do my best. If I were a woman, I would never catch a cold to this lie.
5. Once we have the money, we will hold the wedding
Purpose: To use various deceptions to retain one's love
For the post-80s generation, the current situation is not optimistic. Even with some real skills, earning money is not easy. However, the reality is very cruel. Women may care more about emotions on campus, but in society, they care more about money and status. No need to blame, women also hope to live a better and happier life.
I finally found a love relationship, but I still don't have the money to prepare for the wedding. Therefore, the basic route for the post-80s generation is to obtain a naked marriage certificate for a few years before holding the wedding.
It's yours, it's yours. If you find true love, I believe she will accompany you; Of course, she will also believe your lie.
6. I have no reservations about you anymore
Purpose: To surrender everything and win the trust of the other party
If a man confides everything to you, will you still defend him? Obviously not.
But if a man leaves everything to you, will you continue to love him
The fact is that even though you know it's a lie, you still have to believe it. Sometimes, the charm of lies is like this.
7. Give me some time, I can make changes
Purpose: Desire for this relationship at all costs
When a man says this sentence, it means that their relationship is in danger. Because of his lies, even a stranger would believe it. It can be seen that he has really put in a lot of effort and wants to maintain his relationship.
However, there are some problems that men can never change. Smoking and drinking can be considered as' if you're being promiscuous, women need to be careful. These may be something he can never quit in his lifetime. '.
8. I didn't hear your call just now
Purpose: Tired of urging and needing freedom
Don't expect every man to answer the phone on time when you want him to. He also needs freedom and space.
Perhaps he was really busy, or he deliberately didn't answer, or he was feeling angry, but afterwards, he didn't want you to be sad, didn't want you to suspect that he was "intentionally" not answering the phone and making you angry. Anyway, men's lies are always so clich é d and cute. Women should not pursue too much, lies are sometimes the best lubricant.
9. It's okay, I'm here
Purpose: To establish a male image, even if the face is swollen and the body is fat
Men believe in 'face' the most. In the vast majority of cases, men's face is only seen in front of women. Sometimes, even if it doesn't work, they still pretend to be very skilled. These performances undoubtedly aim to establish a masculine image in women's hearts, or to give women a sense of security that they can rely on.
But sometimes, if you can't show off, don't show off. If you can't do it, don't do it, otherwise you will suffer and know it yourself. If you do this every time, but what you say doesn't match what you do, it will actually affect your position in her mind.
