Post Date April, 15 2023
Some netizens said that he had made two girlfriends, but both were upset because the other person was not a virgin and even wanted to commit suicide. He wrote in the letter, "I love her very much (my first girlfriend), and I have always refused to accept the fact (she is not a virgin). I think about this all day. I was originally cheerful and lively, but now I become restless every day
Later on, I made another girlfriend. She was a good person, personality, and other aspects, making her an ideal marriage partner. However, she was not a virgin either. I thought I could accept this fact, but I still couldn't. I was unhappy because she was not a virgin all day. I always thought how good it would be if she were a virgin
Psychological experts point out that the intense psychological conflict of this friend comes from the inner "virgin complex", which reflects a man's desire to conquer and sense of success. For men with a desire to possess, having a woman's first night is having everything about her. The 'Virgo Complex' reflects a subconscious lack of confidence and security in men's hearts, pursuing perfection. Teacher Zheng also introduced how men should handle this situation.
