Tao feels happy and fortunate. Although he is gay, he and his lover are recognized by family and friends and lead a happy and sweet life.
Not to mention, he has been helpless, tangled, and even desperate because he is gay. Once upon a time, his "underground" relationship with his lover for up to five years made him feel guilty towards his lover, and he didn't know how to explain it to his parents. In his late thirties, Tao decided to confess to his parents and declare to the world that he was a homosexual after his parents kept urging him to marry and after a long and painful ideological struggle. Fortunately, Tao's parents, although traditional, are not pedantic. After recognizing the profound relationship between Tao and his lover, they finally decided to recognize the relationship between Tao and his lover and bless the two children who are in bitter love.
But Tao knows that not every gay person can be as happy and lucky as he is. Through contacts with other homosexuals in the club, he learned that most homosexuals are misunderstood by people.
Some people say that homosexuality equals incompetence in love
In fact, homosexuals only choose the same sex when choosing their partner, rather than being unwilling to accept love or being unable to love others. This is a big difference from "not being able to engage in a serious relationship". They cannot be considered lacking in the ability to love just because they choose the same sex. They just choose another way to love.
Some people say that homosexuality is a psychopath
Homosexuality, as a special sexual orientation, has long been regarded as a pathological condition by most people. However, on May 17th, 1990, the World Health Organization (WHO) removed homosexuality from the list of mental disorders. In China, a very detailed definition of homosexuality was also provided in the "Classification and Diagnostic Criteria for Mental Disorders in China" published on April 20th, 2001, indicating that homosexuality is not necessarily a psychological abnormality. A large amount of scientific evidence has proven that this is only a natural choice, just like some people are naturally fond of eating meat, and some people are naturally vegetarian.
Some people say that homosexuality means people living with AIDS
In fact, there has never been exact survey data and evidence to show that if you are gay, you will definitely get STDs or AIDS. In the gay community, the risk of suffering from AIDS is indeed higher than that of heterosexuality, but if they can correctly use all kinds of safety tools, just like heterosexuality, they can avoid suffering from sexually transmitted diseases or AIDS. Therefore, acts such as "not allowing homosexual blood" in daily life will naturally be considered discriminatory.