Faced with the other party's infidelity, each has its own reasons, and the reasons are very substantial. I think no matter whose fault it is, why don't we start from scratch and find out the real reason why men cheat?
1、 Analyzing from the physiological structure of men and women:
Women generally do not age easily, but once they reach around 30 years old, they will accelerate their aging process. It is said that a woman only has a ten year flowering period in her life, which is between the ages of 18 and 28. As the saying goes, a woman's thirties are tofu residue.
However, men are generally prone to aging when they are young, especially before the age of thirty. However, to a certain extent, men are less likely to age again. On the contrary, it is possible to appear younger with the rise of career and life. A man has at least 25 years of flowering in his life, which is between the ages of 25 and 50. So it is reasonable to say that men have 31 flowers.
2、 From a career perspective:
Generally, women retire from the second tier in their careers and become housewives after getting married and having children (with some exceptions). Busy for children and families.
Men are generally around 30 years old, which means that after marriage, their career is moving from bottom to top, and their career is thriving.
3、 From the perspective of psychological structure:
Women face a lot of household chores and worry about their children's growth, so they don't have more time to spend with men and begin to complain in language.
Men are increasingly demanding of their wives in all aspects of their career success. Faced with women's complaints, they begin to develop dissatisfaction or disregard.
Based on the above analysis, we have summarized and found the true reasons for men's infidelity:
When a couple promises to grow old and love each other for ten thousand years. After marriage, the woman retired from the second tier in her career. As she grew older, she faced a lot of household chores and worries about the growth of her children. She didn't have more time to spend with men and began to babble in language.
It can be seen that the older a woman gets, the more she goes down the wrong path in various aspects. At the same time, the older the man, the more successful his career and various aspects may be. May have gained more male charm. Faced with the success of their career, they are increasingly demanding of their wives from all aspects.
Especially in the face of career pressure, it is even more important for women to understand. However, when faced with a large amount of household chores and concerns about the growth of children, women do not have more time to accompany men and begin to nag in language.
Gradually, the man began to develop dissatisfaction or indifference towards the woman. In such a situation, if a young and beautiful third party appears, men are more likely to cheat.
In summary, it is necessary to reduce cheating on the male partner. Firstly, men should strengthen their restraint. Secondly, the woman needs to strengthen "after-sales service" to a certain extent. Because marrying a husband doesn't mean buying insurance. What is more important during this period is your "after-sales service". Men value this very much.