Most men rarely express guilt or regret about extramarital affairs
"I've been married for 35 years. I don't want any changes - but our sexual life still needs to be improved. By current standards, we're doing pretty well. I've had several experiences of extramarital sex, hiding it from my wife. I understand there's no bad impact, and I know there are some good results - each experience will teach me something 'new' that I can use in my family."
"I got married because of love, a strong sexual life, and a friendly relationship. Having sex with my wife is great, but I like to try new things. I don't like monogamy, it's too limited and one-way. The only impact of extramarital affairs on me is the sadness of separation, which never affects my marriage, because I would never be foolish enough to tell my wife."
"I have been married for nearly 20 years. As time goes by, my sexual life has become more and more fulfilling. I have had extramarital affairs and kept them from my wife. I fell in love with my first girl without hesitation. This experience taught me what the outcome would be if I didn't use my mind to control my emotions, and I have been different since then. I don't know what the impact of this relationship on my marriage is, and I have never thought about my relationship with my wife or my relationship with this "What is the relationship between girls?"
Most men say extramarital affairs have a good impact on them
"In my first marriage, I did have extramarital sex. My wife didn't know about it. It had a great impact on me and had no impact on my marriage."
"I have been involved in extramarital affairs for 20 years. Many are casual, but some are long-term relationships that last for 3 to 4 years. My wife doesn't know. Currently, I have two extramarital affairs, which is very good for me."
Some people say that extramarital affairs are good because they are self improvement:
"That would be a wonderful experience and enhance myself."
"I have extramarital affairs. They have pulled me out of a state of almost self destructive depression. It has not affected my marriage."
"My intimate wife has no knowledge of it, which has had a great impact on me - beautiful changes, and has strengthened my self-esteem because I am very attractive."
"I haven't lived with my wife for two years, and I've had an affair, which I enjoy. It makes me feel sexy and has a good image. A few years later, when I told my wife about this, she thought my confession was malicious and said I shouldn't have told her. However, I really don't think an affair has a significant impact on our relationship or marriage."
"About four years ago, I discovered that I was less satisfied with my sexual life than before, when there was an opportunity for an affair. This relationship lasted for two or three months, with the frequency of meeting twice a week. My wife has never found it, and psychologically, it has greatly inspired me and made me look refreshed. Now I am relatively satisfied with my sexuality, but I still feel that an occasional flirtation can be very satisfying, but in situations where no one has been harmed "