Why do men and women have vastly different psychological language for the same behavior. This article analyzes the most common behaviors that affect male female relationships, and those who don't want to bother or please should come and learn quickly.
1. How to Give Flowers Effectively
Men's approach: Buy a bouquet of flowers and send it to their girlfriend's home, wait for her downstairs in the office, or arrange a place to eat for her.
Woman's idea: Please send it to my office by express delivery!! Others can be exempted!
Interpretation: Flowers are meant to be seen by people. This is not only the person who collects flowers, but more importantly, there should be an audience around who knows the flowers, has close relationships, and has a gossip mentality. This is the irreparable vanity of women. If you think that personal romance can start from a private place, you are wrong. She doesn't want flowers for their fragrance, she wants someone to praise their fragrance! Otherwise, your flower gift will also be in vain. You know why so many women like to walk down the street holding flowers.
2. Do you choose a birthday gift or does she choose it
Man's approach: Just ask her what she wants, and then buy that one for her. That's right!
Woman's idea: Of course I like men asking me what to buy, but this is for everyday consumption. This can only prove that you are a good husband, a good husband. And when it comes to birthdays or Christmas Valentine's Day, what I need is a surprise!
Interpretation: Whether you DIY, give money to someone else DIY, or go and choose for yourself, it's all about wanting something she doesn't know. Of course, nine out of ten things men choose are not in women's hearts. She may also blame you for wasting money, but listen to her sweet tone. Anyway, the money from these few festivals should be donated to the "Love Foundation". If you are generous, appropriate, or unique, you will succeed! Of course, there are also practical women who ask you to buy what she wants directly, but I believe smart women know that in the long run, your man will no longer worry about you.
3. Buy her clothes or give her money to buy them herself?
Man's approach: Actually, it's best to give her money and buy it herself to avoid trouble. But there are also some pure hearted or romantic men who risk their lives to buy clothes for women, and they like the feeling of wearing them on women after choosing them. Of course, these situations often occur when men help women buy underwear.
Woman's idea: You just give me the money and I'll buy it.
Interpretation: These are fundamentally women's rights, and even men's clothes should be manipulated by women. Isn't it fair for men to pursue careers and women to buy fashion? More importantly, even if you buy her a great brand of clothing, her first thought is, which woman did you find to help you choose? This is what makes men fall into an eternal abyss!
4. Is it true that she doesn't want to be close to you when she refuses?
Men's approach: Proactively getting close. If a woman refuses, she feels that she doesn't want to do it or is feeling unwell, often giving up her thoughts.
Woman's idea: Why hesitate, hurry up
Interpretation: The relevant survey was conducted in 36 countries worldwide from September 6 to October 3, 2011. Except for Nigeria, which was conducted through face-to-face interviews, all other 35 countries conducted the survey online, with a total of 29003 participants (adults aged 18 and above). The survey results within China were obtained through a survey of 2060 respondents. Therefore, men should learn to recognize women's half done and half done!
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)