As far as you are concerned, what is the meaning of kissing and what are the conditions for an ideal kissing object? In fact, it is not only men and women, but also ourselves in the above questions. With the time, we will have different answers. Therefore, this time we will have a deeper understanding of "kissing". After all, as the saying goes, the distance between women and men from Venus and Mars is light years
Before discussing the views of both sexes on kissing, let's first understand whether kissing is important or not? The answer is... super important! According to The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips Are Telling Us, 59% of men and 66% of women will break up because of their poor kissing skills.
Fact 1: Everyone's memories of the first kiss are more profound than those of the first sex.
John Bohannon, a psychologist from Butler University, pointed out that according to 500 test subjects, people can remember 90% of the details of the first kiss, Even more impressive than the "first sex" that many people attach importance to. And social scientists Joanna Brevis and Stephen Linstead said that some sex workers' insistence on not kissing is traceable, because kissing can trigger our desire and love for the other party, so not kissing can reduce the possibility of affection.
Fact 2: People who kiss their wives before going out are happier.
According to a ten-year psychological study conducted in Germany, a man who kisses his wife before going out to work lives five years longer than a man who can't. In addition to prolonging life, people who can kiss earn 20-30% more money! This data is not for everyone to kiss his wife every day from today, but to show the psychological state behind the kissing behavior. Perhaps we can speculate that people who have this habit usually have a more positive attitude at the beginning of each day, and therefore have a healthier life.
1、 Women attach more importance to kissing than men.
2、 Women pay more attention to boys' teeth and hygiene.
3、 Women tend to regard kissing as a way to evaluate whether to maintain a long-term relationship.
4、 Men tend to regard kissing only as a prerequisite for love.
5、 Compared with men, they not only pay less attention to kissing, but also pay more attention to the attraction of face and body.
Kissing advice for women
According to William Cane, the author of The Art of Kissing, the results obtained by interviewing many men are as follows:
1、 Open your mouth a little wider
2、 Take the initiative
3、 The tongue is more aggressive
4、 Men like wet kisses with more tongue interaction
5、 Only 10% of men like to be kissed on the neck
Kissing advice for men
1、 Don't try to stick your tongue into her throat
2、 Don't make her unable to breathe
3、 Please cooperate with the other party's actions (such as responding to her tongue) and don't be confused
4、 53% of women prefer to kiss men with clean beard
5、 96% of women said they like to be kissed on the neck
6、 Don't be like a robot without any changes (neck, ear, upper lip and lower lip can be mastered)
As a female editor, Niu nodded like garlic after reading the part of the suggestions for men. If you feel the same way, it's better to post this article to your other half to let him know you better!