Couples' sexual life is a very important relief in marriage. If their sexual life is not harmonious, their emotions will be directly affected. However, in sexual life, both husband and wife need to have a clear division of roles, which is not mandatory, but must be accepted by both parties and well integrated into sexual life. Therefore, the sexual life of husband and wife must be divided reasonably.
Some couples are accustomed to the division of roles. Some husbands think that they should be responsible for their wives' sexual needs. So, "whenever and wherever she has a request, I will meet her and never refuse her." Others think that sex is determined by men. As long as they are happy, their wives can be satisfied, without considering the mood and physical condition of both sides at that time. This is the result of excessive restriction and restraint by the division of roles.
In fact, there should be a certain division of labor in the role of sexual life, but not too limited. It is important to understand and respect each other. We should strive to mobilize our sexual initiative, explore the sexual potential of each other, understand each other's sexual sensitive areas, suitable posture, foreplay methods and other factors through frank communication, and try to achieve the same sexual needs of both sides.>> How do women discuss sex with their husbands after marriage
Although sexual life will have certain regularity when the sexual needs of both parties are consistent, it is not constant. It changes with the changes of both parties' emotions, sexual desire, physical condition, environmental conditions and other factors. There should be an adjustment mechanism to make the satisfaction of both parties reach an appropriate balance.
Generally speaking, when the husband is young, the wife can cool down the overheated sexual reaction by changing the environment, distracting attention, etc; When the wife is young, she needs her husband to talk about love and often hug to help her sexual reaction rise, so as to accurately touch the "sexual pulse" of both sides, so as to achieve the harmony of sexual life.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)