Any couple is not married, licensed and living together. The long road of marriage needs to be repaired and maintained continuously. Both daily life and sexual life need to be kept fresh. If you want to be in love until the end of your life, stick a grass-roots "fresh-keeping film" on your marriage.
The first layer of plastic film: often recall love
Hot love is the precursor of marriage. It is really wonderful for men and women in hot love to be attached to each other for a moment. After marriage, often recalling the hot love scene before marriage can arouse the emotional resonance of the couple, and add romantic feelings in the memory, more yearning for the future, thus enhancing the relationship between the couple.
The second layer of plastic film: surprise
Surprise the other party unexpectedly and often act as an emotional "stimulant". Therefore, creating a little surprise is very good for improving the relationship between husband and wife. For example, hiding from the other party, bringing his or her relatives in the distance to meet, buying something for the other party that he or she really wants to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other party has not prepared for, but loves very much, and so on, can make unexpected surprises arise spontaneously, thus bursting out strong emotional flowers in the surprise and setting off a happy love wave.
The third layer of plastic film: a little farewell
"Farewell is better than marriage". After a period of quiet husband and wife life, consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate the yearning of both parties for their loved ones, and then get together happily. At this time, it can make the emotional heat of the couple's yearning interweave into a happy reunion carnival, and push the calm feelings of the couple to a new peak.
The fourth layer of plastic film: pay attention to your own image
Some people, after marriage, are no longer fastidious about their clothes and looks, and are slovenly. Especially for gay men, this problem is even more serious. In fact, no matter which side of the couple, they don't want each other to leave a bad image in the eyes of others. Therefore, pay attention to your own image, not only to please the other party, but also to fight for face in public. Otherwise, it may affect the feelings of both parties.
The fifth layer of plastic film: keep sexual life fresh
Sex is an important way to connect couples' feelings, and a good sex life is a necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop their feelings. Many married couples have the same sex life, lack of innovation, and lead to emotional passivity. Therefore, it is necessary to create a new sexual life style. By changing the time, place and position of sexual life, both husband and wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sexual life, and keep the emotional flower of husband and wife fresh forever.
The sixth layer of plastic film: keep some personal privacy
No matter how big a person is, he will also be jealous of his lover's gossip, and it is more difficult to tolerate the fact that the other party's "red apricot" scandal, which leads to the family crisis is not uncommon. Therefore, it is not a good idea to "confess" the privacy in the past personal marriage and love history to the present lover. That will not only help improve the relationship, but will bring about avoidable emotional crisis. Therefore, leaving some personal privacy is a wise choice to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)