In an era that is not suitable for advocating the life of "Cowherd and Weaver Girl", too long separation between husband and wife will bring many difficulties to both parties, including difficulties in work and study, difficulties in raising children and supporting the elderly. The most nerve-racking thing is, of course, the emotional inseparability, especially for young couples, sometimes even causing emotional crisis between couples.
In real life, it is not uncommon for couples to live apart from each other. Long-term separation can also provide opportunities for a third party to intervene. If their concentration is weak, it can easily lead to derailment.>> How to properly adjust the differences between husband and wife
How to resolve the emotional crisis of separation
The separation between two places does bring a lot of inconvenience to the couple's life. When the separation problem cannot be solved for the time being, don't be too upset. The couple should encourage each other to overcome the temporary difficulties, and never weaken the pure love because of the separation.
When there is temptation from the outside, a couple living in two places must tell the other party that they are married, and can't conceal it at all. When the other party is still entangled, they should resolutely refuse the other party's courtship, and absolutely can't have any ambiguity. In order to resist the temptation, you can turn your attention to your career, or recall the good time with your spouse, or try to solve the problem of separation between the two places. You can make the efforts of the organization, society and other aspects to bring the couples from different places to live together.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)