Post Date December, 03 2023
There is no deep feeling from the beginning, but the old couple is so deep that they have immunity, because time has smoothed the run-in between them. For paper marriage couples, there is no time to accumulate deep feelings as immunity, and the wisdom to deal with conflicts is particularly important. And emotional "fever" attacks couples with low immunity.
This "fever" refers to the contradiction between husband and wife. However, men and women have different attitudes towards this matter. Women like to get to the bottom of the matter and pester, while men like to make big things small. Women will feel that men don't care about him, and men will say that women make a big deal out of a molehill. In fact, neither side is wrong, just because of their different thinking patterns.
Therefore, if both parties can't correctly understand and treat the differences between men and can't communicate well, then the couple's emotions will lack immunity, so it is easy to find a fever.
"Fever" becomes "incurable disease" without treatment
Our normal thinking is that fever should not be delayed for a long time, because it is easy to become a "terminal disease", but many people think it may be fever, so we should not pay attention to it. They did not realize that fever, a minor disease, could also drag into serious disease.
For example, the couple's petty quarrel was not a big deal and was easy to settle. But it happens that some people hold you, and you make me unhappy. I have to make you unhappy before I even turn a blind eye to my lover, and even show my power through sexual punishment. As a result, the small fever between husband and wife turned into an "incurable disease" because they missed the best treatment opportunity.
The treatment of "fever" can't be easier. More communication is needed. Although there is usually, what is needed now is a lot of communication; Of course, when communicating, one party, the best one is the man, should know how to be patient. The big man can be flexible and flexible. Why can't his wife tolerate it?
What a woman wants in anger is release. You are her man. Who do you want? Good men will also find the "new continent" in women's anger. For example, they only know where they are wrong and where they are usually wrong, so they can start to correct. In short, two people with fever need to cool down rather than refuel. Both men and women have the responsibility to bear the frustrations and frustrations in their feelings, advance and retreat together, and pursue harmony together to achieve happiness.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
