The post-80s generation has changed from the original ignorant youth to the independent talents, and their love has gradually blossomed and fruited, and they have entered the marriage palace. However, marriage is a new journey for the post-80s generation. How can post-80s couples maintain a harmonious and happy marriage? Here are some "yardsticks of love" to help you.
The first criterion: coordinate the economy
We should discuss more economically. Although married and living together, don't take the money in the other party's wallet as your own money. Money is money, and love is love. Is it love that she (he) gives you all the salary? Then your love is too superficial. It is not the husband or wife who has the money in the family that should be controlled. It should be negotiated and managed by whoever can manage the money.
The second criterion: never be lazy
The common problem of post-80s people is laziness. Housework is always pushed around. As a result, no one can do anything but make noise. So there is no way. Now that we are living together, please be diligent. Don't be hegemonic at home. You don't do anything and depend on each other.
The third criterion: Don't babble
Nagging is a common thing for people who got married in the last century. The post-80s married in the 21st century should not learn this "good tradition". Is it not enough to be bullied outside every day? When you come back, you have to nag about little things. I'm tired of you. Maybe it will directly affect the quality of life of couples, which we don't want to see.
The fourth criterion: Don't gnaw old
What is the most popular in the 21st century. This is something that China has never heard of for thousands of years. If Jiuquan knew about it, Confucius would have to blow his nose and stare at it underground and shout, "It's outrageous.". Let's not learn from fashion. The young couple have hands and feet, but they have to rely on the elderly to support them. It's too embarrassing to spread it.
Fifth criterion: frugality at home
People born in the 1980s are just like babies when they are young. Their parents are afraid of flying when they hold them in their hands, and they are afraid of melting when they hold them in their mouths. They are like babies. They have never suffered, so they don't know how easy money is. Especially after work, they spend their money in a big way, which is not reliable. They are often rich at the beginning of the month and poor at the end of the month. Young couples should be frugal, or they will find that they have no money when they encounter major events.
Sixth criterion: fresh and exciting
The above items are about daily life, and this one is about sex life. We must admit that sex is an important means to maintain the feelings and happiness of couples. Young couples after the 1980s should not lack novelty and excitement, and their sexual life must be full of variety to be happy. Therefore, we recommend that you use more fun toys, such as the massage artifact TIANI 2 and TIANI 2 made by LELO, which can bring all-round stimulation to the woman and enjoy the thrill together. This kind of sex life will be more delicious.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)